WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 7 MONTHS BUT HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR A WHILE BEFORE OUR RELATIONSHIP STARTED. WE HAVE ONLY BEEN TO THE MOVIES TWICE(IN THE BEGINING OF OUR RELATIONSHIP) SINCE WE HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP. I AM NOT UNATTRACTIVE SO I CAN NOT FIGURE OUT WHY HE DOES NOT WANT TO GO WITH ME ANYWHERE......................................... WHAT COULD BE THE PROBLEM?
2006-08-14 06:47:50 · 15 answers · asked by iris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're right it most likely has nothing to do with looks..actually he might be somewhat insecure if he's afraid to be in public with you. It's happened to me in the past..the guy straight up told me that he gets jealous of other guys even looking at me! So yah I had to let him go, because I wasn't going to live in a freakin' hole. Another thing it could be is that maybe he doesn't have enough money to take you out..
Or he might have a different motive to your "relationship"...do you put out? (keep that in mind)
2006-08-14 07:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by feisty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take him out on a suprise date show him a good time when you go out and then he might see that in a different way. did you have fun those 2 times you went out? that could be why. does he spend a lot of time with you alone instead of going out or would he rather be doing some guy stuff?
2006-08-14 06:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you guys do when you are together? Is he broke? Is he seeing someone else on the side? Maybe he's embarrassed to be seen with you? Have you ever hung out with his friends or family and has he met yours? Do you ever suggest any activities that involve leaving the house/apartment or do you leave that all up to him?
2006-08-14 06:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by m&m_manic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him directly why, what's wrong. Try to find it out directly from him.. If he doesn't want to be seen with you,,, then He sure does not like you.. A man who loves a girl is always proud to be seen around with her.
2006-08-14 06:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes men doesn't like to go out with women because they actually dont like her presense, so if you want a straight answer ?
He doens't Love (true love i mean) you at all.
I would be with a girl all the time as possible if i loved her...
2006-08-14 06:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He prbly needs breathing room...You might come across as too insecure, or needy..
2006-08-14 06:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't like the places you are going? Have you ever asked him why?
2006-08-14 06:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just busy... then again that could also be a bad thing cuz he could have found someone else. i dunno what to tell you. just try asking him why. you might get a straight answer out of him.
2006-08-14 06:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by GiR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're smothering him too much?
or he doesn't like you anymore?
or he found someone else?
2006-08-14 06:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by Southpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn`t want being seeing with you.
2006-08-14 06:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by Fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋