soon I will be going to highschool I'm very nervous and I'm afaird older kids will make fun of me.And also I know there will be people with the same interests but I'm afaird I'm not good enough to hang out with them.And my shcool shirt makes me look like I have no boobs!!!:(:( any advice any tips someone help!
2006-08-14 06:42:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ops sorry my q&a was kind of spelled wrong i mean
'i'm going to highschool and **I'M***very nervous help?
2006-08-14 06:46:12 · update #1
wow! thanks you guys more people answer then I thought.Thanks for taking your time I'm pretty nervous but thanks for your help!:)
2006-08-14 08:19:30 · update #2
i went through the 9th grade last year....nobody really botherd me much. They actualy gave me advice on alot of stuff, its not like it seems back then anymore. So dont be that nervous
2006-08-14 06:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe! Well highschool is super fun! Everyone is nervous before they get there... But people are nicer than you think, and you'll still have your old friends from elementary school! I'm gonna be honest with you, the first year is the hardest because there is a lot of adjusting you have to do... But after that it gets easier! Most likely the older kids will completely ignore you, but some of the guys might hit on you...
But high school can be awesome... You dont have to do homework, you can skip class, you get your own locker... Theres lots of good things bout it! But you gotta be careful you do some homework or get it done in class and you go to most of your classes or you might fail... But high school is no more difficult than elementary school if you're there!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-14 14:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I was the exact same way going into high school...I was so nervous about the people and the whole experience, but after the first day it gets easier! You will make friends soon enough! No matter if your in the "cool" crowd or not...people are always being talked about..I know in our high school there were rumors about the preps and other people...so everyone knew what it was like...its just a part of the high school experience! But I suggest getting involved with as much as you can because you will regret it once your out of high school, plus it helps you make more friends!
2006-08-14 14:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by sweetthang172 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's tough. I remember my first day of high school. Everybody seems like they know where they are going and settled. Everybody seems so much older too. Don't worry so much. You will fit in just fine. Your self esteem needs some work. Why would you not be good enough to hang out with anyone??? If you pride yourself, others will too. If they don't, then screw them!! I promise you even though this moment seems like the most important moment of your life, as you get older you will realize it's not that big of a deal. Right now it is your whole life....Please remember this...when you are 25, you will look back and say to yourself..."give me a break!!"
If you don't fit in, then join the club!! Lots of people don't fit in. I find the "cool" kids are such jerks anyway...I was too skinny, wore glasses and gawky looking....the best of me was still hiding out somewhere. I don't look like that anymore. When I hit around 21, I put on a few pounds, chucked those glasses and grew into my boobs.....I was happy that I turned into a woman at that age rather than younger..
I am 36 years old and all the "cool" kids and "hot" girls are all fat, ugly or bald. Most of them had kids at like 18 years old and they look terrible. They peaked in high school and it was all down hill from there. You DO NOT want to peak in high school....you want to peak at around age 22 to 40....that's when life really starts to take on some serious meaning.
As far as your boobs go, I don't know what to say. Right now it's soooo important I know, as you get older, your ideas change. Your brain is the most important tool you have, your boobs are much lower on the list of assets you possess.
Take a deep breathe, take pride in your appearance and act like a lady. Be yourself and never feel ashamed of who you are....
2006-08-14 14:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by nick031297 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
High School can be very scary, but don't let it intimidate you. In High School you will meet new people, People that are just as unique as you are. Those things that make you diferent (also maybe get made fun of for) are the same things that will make you new (and better) friends. High School can be the funnest time in your life. You will experience some of the greatest things while you are there, and you'll make some life long friends. Don't let it scare you! Also, most of the others going into High School are just as scared as you are.
2006-08-14 13:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by deet deet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I sugest is once you get into high school join a club of your interest, that way you well be around other people who have similar intrests and than you can make friends and feel better about yourself, regardless of what others say the important thing is to make good grades and prepare for college.
"Knowledge is something that once attained cannot be taken away from by no one!"
My moms quotes to me when I started high school
2006-08-14 13:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about high school. even if you're teased, just realize it's part of growing up and those who tease you were teased themselves. i'm going to be a senior this year, and i've realized that joining clubs or trying out for sports teams really helps. having friends will really help. even if you don't make a team, or can't commit yourself to one, still try to go to games. getting yourself out there will prove to people that your cool, and you'll probably meet some new friends. also, if you're ever having trouble in anything (say you don't understand anything in math class) don't be afraid to ask for help. a lot of people i know wouldn't talk to people who don't ask for help, because they seem uptight. about the boob thing - don't worry about it. although guys really like girl's bodies, it's not all we have, and any guy who only wants someone for their body isn't worth wasting time on. good luck with high school!
2006-08-14 14:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by KatyBeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the shirt probably makes every girl look just like that. and as for the older kids they probably will for a bit but they will laugh at all the juniors so dont worry and have fun everything will get to a new normal soon
2006-08-14 13:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by hedley_20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 10 grder this year. It wasn't that bad. There's nothing to be afraid of if it's the people being older than you you're talking about. In my school, each grade pretty much hung out with the same grade. [like 9 graders w/ 9th graders] so yea.........
2006-08-14 14:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
high school is no big thing. my freshmen year the upper classmen really didnt pay attention to you if they didnt know you. you really have nothing to worry about. just make sure you hang around people that like you for you and that you have the time of your life because as they say these are our golden years.
about the boob thing, i have the same problem. you just have to find the right bra that will work with your shirts.
2006-08-20 14:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by Baby G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be you! Its the best thing you got going for you. You will find friends believe me you will. Its normal to be nervous. When I went to high school I was so scared. Then by my sophmore year I was one of the popular chicks. Once you get into the swing of things you will be fine.
2006-08-14 13:48:41 · answer #11 · answered by rainymar143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋