I had a friend and ex-neighbor for four years.I used to hang out with her and her boyfriend all the time; her bofriend was my friend/ex-neighbor too-I even got a cat from her. But when she moved, things changed. I rarely heard from her. I did have her cell and talked to her two years ago. When I moved two years ago, it was the last time I saw her boyfriend. The last time I saw her was that spring when she moved. I called her cell's voicemail and left pages- twice a month- she didn't call back. The last time I've talked to her on the phone was March 05-she gave her condolescences for the loss of my grandfather who died three months before. Plus I wrote her letters-nothing. Her phone was disconnected, blocked, etc., last summer, until her phone # was someone else's last fall, when I dialed and looked it up at Switchboard. Opines?
2006-08-14 06:37:59 · 23 answers · asked by Kristen H 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Relationships in all aspects of life come and go. Don't dwell that it could have been something that you have done. Maybe it wasn't you at all. When you are with someone it is easy to put on the blinders and stop seeing your other friends, as what I think she has done to you. Move on, find your groove, do things for yourself and make yourself happy. Do thngs for you, not for someone else.
2006-08-14 13:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by know_it_all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time have changed and so have people. Distance is a huge factor as well. That is why long distance relationships hardly ever work out becasue it changes people when they move to a different place and make new friends. If the friendship was so tight in the beginning, than you two would still be friends so, since you two stopped talking, I guess it's not as tight as you though.
2006-08-14 06:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just let her go. As people age, we change and some old friendships just can't stand the passing of time. If you run into her be friendly and happy to see her, otherwise just move on with your life and your new friends. Perhaps years down the road you will reconnect and have an even better friendship then.
2006-08-14 06:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes moved on. That doesn't mean she does not like you but it means she has probably developed new friendships. You should do the same thing. I too have written letters to long lost friends and they either never write me back or do so at their own sweet time. Rememer the good times you had with your friend. That is the best way for you to remember her in good standing.
2006-08-14 06:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds screwed up. i could have mentioned which you will desire to call her up and say howdy.. you be conscious of; get issues began. yet in line with possibility she became for the greater serious in life. On proactive measures, basically human beings seek her contained in the final section which you think of she is and contact her up or write a letter. yet do you unquestionably need to circulate with the aid of lots artwork to communicate with a individual you haven't any longer be conscious of because 1996?-- You 2 would have completely diverse personalities. solid success!
2016-09-29 06:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the normal fading away that often happens in friendships. It is sad when you want to keep it going more than her. She is in a different place and space. Especially when people are younger they grow in different directions. You seem like a fine friend anyway.
2006-08-14 06:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People tend to move on when they move.
They say that Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but unfortunately that only works in the short term... as time goes on, people tend to stop communicating... and move on.
Sorry to hear... but I don't think you did anything... it's an unfortunate thing, but it happens.
2006-08-14 06:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Village Idiot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that she has just moved on. It happens all the time when people move from one place to another. It's probably nothing you did, but just her life.
2006-08-14 06:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you cant get through to ask that question I guess you have to assume she is a pretty crappy friend. I mean if you did do something she should of spoke up and talked to you about it. I hate it when people do that!
2006-08-14 06:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by Dominika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she has moved on from you and has other friends and wants to leave her past behind her. Just take a hint and leave her alone.
2006-08-14 06:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋