Many people find it easier to solve the problems of others because they are able to step away from the problems and complications involved and see it for what it is. They can distance themselves from the problem enough that they see possibilites that may never occur to the other person. However because we become so emotionally involved with our own problems we often find it difficult to step back and truely analyze the situation.
2006-08-14 07:05:24
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answered by cassandra581 6
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Most humans can assist others in their problems or issues easier than they can their own. That is our nature. We're empathic and nurturing, to a degree. All though society around us has evolved into a self centered, selfish and uncaring role, we still have it ingrained in us to help a kin resolve an issue they're having. It takes focus of off our own issues, and allows others to look past it as well. No one likes to have their faults aired out.
So yes, I do assist easier with others, over my own.
2006-08-14 06:46:35
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answered by Rebel Regan 2
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No, you can't solve another persons problems they can only do it themselves. But since you're not emotionally tied to their problems, it's easier to watch their problem from a distance and therefore it would be easier to see a possible solution for their problems.
2006-08-14 06:43:13
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answered by chocolatebunny 5
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for some reason other ppls problems seem easier to solve than personal problems. i guess u need to look from the outside to see the truth
2006-08-14 06:42:31
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answered by in ur face 4
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of direction it rather is much less stressful to furnish advice. Emotionally, we are indifferent from the area so we are waiting to furnish a balanced and independent answer. we would desire to be responsive to that, working example, a woman's husband beats her and we would for this reason propose her to run away. yet, as we are no longer the female herself, we can pick to override the shown fact that she is desperately in love along with her husband, while it would be much extra challenging for her herself to try this. We, as advice givers, do no longer be responsive to each complexity of the area, the two, so it would desire to appear extra undemanding. For the guy interior the area, it rather is frequently a conflict between the midsection and the pinnacle. For the answerer, it rather is in reaction to perplexing certainty. i do no longer be responsive to what every physique else gets out of answering questions, yet i be responsive to that I relish the satisfaction of weighing up a project and making a sturdy judgment on what ought to be achieved. i admire the assumption of individuals who desire help listening to my opinion and appearing on it, and that i consistently desire that it will help them or that they might discover some convenience in it. I additionally discover that I rather have learnt an unfavorable lot from starting to be a member of yahoo solutions because of fact I consistently study any assistance that i'm no longer thoroughly beneficial on. each each now and then I study solutions that i does not have prevalent in any respect until now and so I, too, earnings.
2016-12-14 05:42:05
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answered by nurdin 3
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yes, all the time!
I can never solve my own problems, that's why I have them.
But alot of my friends come to me for advice.
And most of the time I can help them out with it.
Even my really younger friends come to me, because most likely I've gone through whatever they are going through now.
I have actually considered becoming a guidance person of some sort.
2006-08-14 12:40:59
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answered by Becky 4
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I think that is true. Sometimes I learn the answers to my own problems by trying to help others.
2006-08-14 06:42:01
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answered by Jamie A 3
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Isn't it the truth? It's the strangest thing, but that just means the problems we solve maybe those people can help us!! LOL
2006-08-14 06:45:50
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answered by Barbie doll lover 4
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It's always easier to see in others what we can't see in ourselves. We live with ourselves 24/7 & we are inside looking out...it's always easier for other people who are outside looking in to see what we miss about ourselves.
2006-08-14 06:44:58
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answered by ? 4
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HELL YEAH and i dont know why??
WHY IS IT THAT when it comes to my own problems i cant solve them..when it comes to others it takes a second to solve their problems.....
2006-08-14 06:44:37
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answered by Anonymous
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