i met this guy and we started talking and he was telling me how much he thought i was cute and what not and how when he first saw me he really wanted to talk to me...so he pretty much was feeling me..then i call him 2 nights ago and he told me that he would call me back but he havn't call me since...and the thing is that, he was the main one saying how am beautiful and all that ish yet..i don't get it...i ask him if he was foreal and he said yes..Help???
2006-08-14 06:32:41 · 7 answers · asked by Am so Curious 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm a guy... I'll be honest because I've done this, know other dudes that have done this, and am pretty sure dudes will do this until the end of time.
He wanted sex with you that moment. He didn't want to wait until later. He wanted it that night and thats it. If he had gotten it he might have dropped you anyway. It cruel, but the truth...
Guys want sex. Only sex. If they can get it from you on thier schedule, great. If not, they'll go elsewhere. We'll say anything and do anything to get it.
Now this doesn't apply all the time. There are some good eggs out there. You just gotta find'em or maybe they'll find you. The goods one won't want to hit it first thing. In this case though, I think you found one one looking to tag it and leave it. Count yourself lucky and look for a good one.
2006-08-14 06:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens often, with men and with women. Don't wait around-live your life, have fun, meet other people. If you hear from him, great. If not, you made the effort. Don't stress over it. Many people are this way and it is frustrating, but don't waste too much energy over it.
2006-08-14 13:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, calm down..... he's probably busy or scared to call you back.Plus if he was that interested in you he would have been the first to call you before you called him Let him call you back. And if he doesn't well OWELL move on.
2006-08-14 13:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by starkizz4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just flirting... if you really want to start something with him then call him up for a little get together.
2006-08-14 13:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him again, and when he calls you play hard to get. men allways want what they cant have
2006-08-14 13:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by k-ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
def. play hard to get and see what happens next
2006-08-14 13:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Toria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably bothering him...ease up and if he's really interested he'll let you know
2006-08-14 13:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by sa-da-tay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋