I'm starting high school and I want to get attention from the boys, and to have them notice me, how do I go about doing it?
BTW, I know you can't get 50 points, but there are alot of idiots out there.
Oh, and please don't lecture me about how school is for education and crap, cuz I don't care.
2006-08-14 06:28:44 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
tell them you'll give free bl*w jobs.that always works.good luck girl.
2006-08-14 06:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by 0000000000000000000000 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Lemme tell you this... It will be my second year in high school and it is not all what it is cracked up to be. There are some who wont give a Sugar Honey Ice Tea about you, so don't go and think that you are just going to fit right in, because your not. They already know that you are trying to impress them, but they don't care, because they think that you are coming to the high school and you thinking that you are all that. Trust me they aint going to fall for it. What you need to think about it your education..... instead of these boys. They don't care about you. And this is coming from someone who is already at the high school. If you don't understand now, you will later, and you can mark my words on that......
2006-08-14 06:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be fake and don't act dumb. Any guy who's worth any time will see thru that right away. (And those who don't see thru it aren't worth much anyway.) Be real. Don't be too loud or crazy because they'll notice you and run in the other direction. Don't be afraid to laugh at jokes - but don't laugh at someone else's expense, that'll come across as b*tchy. Similarly, don't spread rumors or gossip in front of a boy or in any way that it can be traced back to you.
Don't dress or act like a hoochie, because once you get that label, it's hard to get rid of it. (I know of girls that it's followed to college miles away from home.)
And most importantly - don't give up hanging out with the girls. Guys may come and go, but the girls are keepers. (And if you blow them off for a boy, they may not come back.) Not to mention - you always need a wingchick and there's always brothers and brother's friends!
Good luck!
2006-08-14 06:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do like girls who are pretty, but they will pay more attnetion to the girl who is not only pretty, but who seems focused, intelligent, well-spoken, outgoing and friendly. Don't be one of those girls who is snotty to other girls (guys will just think you're a b-itch), don't be too flirty (guys will think you're a s-lut), and you will be noticed.
As for how you should look- dress nicely in a way that is flattering and reflects your individualism. While it's true you will be noticed if you wear the latest styles, and do your hair like all the other girls do, you will be noticed MORE if you model yourself in a fashion that reflects your own personality rather than trying hard to look like everyone else.
And try to remember... school is for education, not socialization. (I know you said you don't care, but I had to say it anyway!) And of course, be careful and be safe.
2006-08-14 06:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by pceej 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering what you call yourself, I say copy an outfit you see a girl wearing in a rap video, stop by the free clinic for some birth control pills, show up at school and let it all go from there.
2006-08-14 13:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Kitae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, isn't the future looking bright. To hell with going to school to learn, this one wants to meet boys. Go ahead, meet and ***** all the boys you can, become a whore, and end up on welfare getting paid for all those daddyless kids. Sounds like a great plan.
If you really want to meet boys, its quite easy, talk to them, and don't be a snob. Guys are quite turned off by snobby b!tches. Your looks, while somewhat improtant are not all there is. Guys want someone they can hang out with, watch a game with, and be a friend with. That's my best advice, be a friend, and for god's sake care about your education, I don't want to pay for your kids. Thanks and good luck.
2006-08-14 06:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, most good guys go for the chicks who care about thier rep. and style. Look cute everyday. Wear flirty perfume. DO NOT WEAR A LOT OF MAKE UP! Be nice and friendly to others. SHow your pride. Stand for what you believe in. Most of all, just be yourself. =]
Good luck with the guys!! <3
2006-08-14 06:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Kimber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wear agreat personality. Be friendly to everyone from the geeks to the punks to the jocks. Let everyone in your circle of trust. Make as many friends as you can now because they won't be here tomorrow. If someone criticizes you for have some many friends ... oh well they are not going to go places like you will.
2006-08-14 06:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by middleshoes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want the attentention. Or do you just want to be a sl_t.
Do yourself a big favor. Just be yourself. More people will like you that way. Dressing for attention will only get you in trouble. You have a great life ahead of you, use it wisely.
2006-08-14 06:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by GERRI B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dress too slutty, it will attract the wrong boys and you will be thought of as a hooch. Dress sexy, yet cute and wear as little make up as possible and don't do too much to your hair. Oh and be yourself, because if they do not like you for who you are then they are losers anyway. Good luck! Have fun, these are the best years of your life!
2006-08-14 06:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do dont dress like a w h o r e =p that will oknly make them think your going to give thems omething. the most attractive thing about a girl to a guy is to just be your sefl. =) maybe try a nice tank top and a nice pair of jeans or skirt.
2006-08-14 06:33:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋