My best friend that I had know for like a couple months just totally dropped me...she erased me off of myspace and blocked me...we had an argument before than and she said she didn't care but obviously she does because she doesn't call or anything...and a couople months ago my other best friend dissed me because I was getting "bad habits" and left me... I still have other friends that aren't really close but they are still my friends...do you think that I am a loser?
2006-08-14 06:14:19 · 15 answers · asked by cookiemvh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
not at all,, you can not make everyone happy ,, you lose friends and make new friend in life don't worry about it
2006-08-14 06:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just changed or they're dumb and weird. If you wanna know what a loser is really like you should read Jerry Spineli's book Loser. It's a great book and kind sad. It's my fave and makes me feel sorry for the main character. Think of life before your friends dissed ya. What were you like? What are you and life like now? Do u think u changed? If not ask your family. Sometimes they can be a big help.
2006-08-14 13:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Hadassa Marciano1994 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope Your Not a Loser if You Didnot Do Anything Wrong ...
If You Didnot Start the Argument With Your Best Friend Then Your Not The One Who Made Problems ...
You Should Have Confidence in Yourself That You Are Right and Believe in Yourself ..And if Your Always Right and Good You Will Find the Best and Great Friends ..
Good Luck
Thanks For Asking ..
2006-08-14 13:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Unique !! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you a "loser" but it says something. I left a friend 2.5 years ago b/c she was the most annoying and bitchy person in my life and it was too much for me; I wanted to be happy. But we're friends again as of a week ago and she's grown up and changed, thankfully. People run when things get ugly for various reasons that you may never be aware of. I'm not sure why they all really left you, but it's probaby a combo of stuff you've been doing and their attitudes.
2006-08-14 13:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need to acquire a wider circle of friends. First of all, you have close friends and casual friends, and maybe a "best friend." It takes a long time for someone to become your close or best friend. "A couple of months?" You hardly know the woman and she hardly knows you. I'd hardly call her your best friend. If I were you I'd start getting some new casual friends, those who are not necessarily you confidants but who you like to do things with. You can't let these two characters who trashed your friendship to define you as a person. Dump them and move on.
2006-08-14 13:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you obviously think that your a loser if your so called "best friends" stopped talking to you for what ever reason f***em. friends come and go and also a real best friend just doesnt diss you because of an argument. my best friend and i argue all the time but we talk about why we're mad and everything is all better. that's a real "best friend" the one i have!
2006-08-14 13:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't dictate who you are .... YOU do !! You'll only be a loser if you give up and believe that lie. Enjoy your life and make new friends, but learn from the mistakes of your past
2006-08-14 13:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you are a loser I think you just need better friends.
2006-08-14 13:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think your a loser then you are.dont listen to what other people say.be proud of the things you do.then you will feel better.
2006-08-14 13:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by sexychick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just get closer to ur other friends and 4get about the ones that ditched u
2006-08-14 13:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by one in a million 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋