My long-time live-in girlfriend has a real problem with intimacy. She doesn't like to kiss and hug. She pretty much refuses to french kiss me. Our sex life is stagnent we are only having sex about once a week, sometimes less. I love her and I know she loves me but I feel like this behavior is making me feel distant, and sometimes I think about finding another girl who will show me more affection and who is more into sex. Is this normal? Should I stick it out, or find someone else?
2006-08-14 06:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by raiderphan79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to talk to your live-in girlfriend to find out what is going on. The thoughts of going out there and looking for sex or whatever is a bit so not good if you think about it. It is you now who wanted to cheat instead of you finding out what is truly going on.
My sex life with my 11months husband was pretty much the same thing....you're luckier than me.... im lucky to even have 1 in a month....
Be the better person to talk and ask what's going on. If you don't see it's happening then only you can decide when to stay or leave.
2006-08-14 06:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and really talk to you girlfriend. Find out why she has a fear of intimacy. She may need counseling. If you can find out the reason then you can deal with what's going on. If she is unwilling to talk about it with you ask her to go get help. If she refuses then you may need to move on. Please try to work this out first. Let her know she is safe and that talking about things will help her and no matter what is said is OK. Let her know you love her.
2006-08-14 06:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by truckermama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her about it. if this is a new thing something could be bothering her. if not maybe she dosnt like sex and if that is the case try new things to get her more interested make sex about her. tell her you feel she is making you feel distant and like she doesnt appreciate you. if things dont get better leave her for a while to work on her issues alone
2006-08-14 06:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by hedley_20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the best key to a good relationship. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Find out what is bothering her, if any and go from there.
2006-08-14 06:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by lovely butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an physical need that should be met. Talk with her and tell her how you are feeling. If she couldn't give you what you needed then I would move on.
2006-08-14 06:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u love her...but u also need affection and a physical relationship...its human nature..and well i guess u deserve it...tell her u need her to try...or thr relationship might go down hill....it might seem obnoxious but its true...
2006-08-14 06:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋