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2006-08-14 06:13:33 · 15 answers · asked by K.L.M 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Unless you're over 18 and supporting yourself with a decent job,
don't do it. Even then, don't have kids until you're certain you can handle the crying & tantrums.
Try working at a day-care or volunteering for your library/community center/church/YWCA children's programs to see how you cope. Think about fostering or adopting older kids.
2006-08-14 06:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by jagfanantic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give birth to a baby that 'crays' at night, I'd take it back and ask for a refund. Get one that normally cries. And make sure it has all ten fingers and toes.
Remember, Chucky crayed at night, too!
2006-08-14 06:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sick Puppy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't have kids until you are prepared emotionally (married), intellectually, financially, etc. Babies can only communicate by crying at first. Guess what, if they're hungry they cry. It doesn't sound to me like you're ready to have kids.
If you are pregnant, however, know tht the love of a mother can bear to hear the crying of her own child. When mine cry, I pick them up & soothe them. I don't let them cry & cry. As a result, they don't cry often--even when I'm not holding them. For many women, being a good mom comes naturally.
2006-08-14 06:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's sort of like being afraid to get a dog because you don't want to clean up their poop. It's comes with the territory, crying is just a natural thing that babies do. The joy of having a baby will far outway all the crying that they do. Hope that helps!
2006-08-14 06:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by nycporkchop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready for the responsibility, do not have kids yet. I don't have any kids, but I was there when my bro and sis were raising their kids, and trust me crying at night is nothing! Be prepared for more!
2006-08-14 06:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Earthling 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really want, then don't be afraid on any point. Imbibe the nature of having a nice and comfortable sleep to them during night.
2006-08-17 16:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you spelled your question, I would assume you are too young to have children? As well, they do not cry at night all the time. My son only cried at night when he was newborn if there was a loud noise that woke him up, or if had soiled his diaper. Otherwise, he slept all night.
2006-08-14 06:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Children should cry. but if they cry at night is to distrub u from sleep and make u spend sleepless night
2006-08-14 06:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by uma v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pleasure and satisfaction of motherhood is worlds best feeling,mother only can get.This is thousands time better then intercours at night.
2006-08-14 07:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by narender_964 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.....even if they cry they sure are cute and fun to play with.just feed them milk or something when they cry.
2006-08-14 06:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥sonam a.♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋