i have a boyfriend and i really love him but i met this girl and i really like her! can't i have a boyfriend and a girlfriend or is that wierd?
2006-08-14 05:55:23 · 19 answers · asked by jamie F. 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Who cares what others think, if you feel it's right, don't you dare do anything but that! Follow your heart, there is absolutly nothing wrong with love or it's many colors.If you're bi, you be bi, if your gay, go ahead, if your straight, that's cool, but don't pretend you're something you're not, be proud!
And don't let these Bible Thumpers make you feel like what your doing is evil, it isn't. It's love, they need to grow up and not force feed you their opinions and religion.
2006-08-14 08:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bretagne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It is not only weird it is also cheating. It would be the same as having 2 boyfriends or having 2 girlfriends. As a teen, I am pretty sure that both, this boy and this girl, will not accept you dating them both at the same time. Also, as a teen, it would be too much weight on your shoulders. Make a decision and pay more attention to your education. Don't put too much into your sexual desires, that can wait.
2006-08-14 13:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Luvlee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you can have whatever you want,
i'm married and have a husband, but have had 4 relationshps with women, 1 of which was semi-long-term with my hubby and this girl,
as long as your boyf knows about it and /or approves, and your not going to break up over it, especially if hes important to you.
I say go for it,
its healthy to have an open minded life.
2006-08-15 13:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by wishfulthinking1012000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have both a boyfriend and a girlfriend .... just be honest in everything you do ... inform them both of your choices and lifestyle
another thing ... how can you love your boyfriend when you easily stray .... if you loved him you would not have strayed to begin with .... or is there an excuse for your wayward behavior?
2006-08-14 13:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by jus j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are U? I guess in this world it is possible but it ain't right. Stay with the opposite sex that was how God made the world to work !
2006-08-14 13:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by concerned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, you like this girl as a friend or what? You can have a bf, and girlfriends (as in friends) at the same time, but if you're talking like sexual attraction, that just wont work.
2006-08-14 12:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Aimee 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know a girl who does the same thing. you just gotta talk to your bf and see if he is ok with it along with the girl
2006-08-14 13:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk things out with both of them. Then you can decide.
2006-08-14 13:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by eagleboy225 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meggy why are u so mean 2me don't u feel my pain my cry for help i hate u i never want 2b your friend
2006-08-17 11:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by kvnaponte 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would be way too confusing for me but it's up to the 3 of you not my business.
2006-08-14 13:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by chante 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋