i think im pregnant my breast are getting bigger they feel tender and last night around 2:00am i felt so sick to my stomach but i never throw up and me and my boyfriends been having sex since june with no condom then i only had my period only one time since hes been back and hes been back since june 26 now its august can someone help me im only 16 he 18 i dont know what todo should i just wait till i get big or what and me and myboyfriend had sex over 40 times
2006-08-14 05:45:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
get a pregnancy test and pray that you just have the flu or something
2006-08-14 05:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely you're pregnant. Get a at home pregnancy test and take it. If you are pregnant, then you have to tell your parents and your b/f parents.
I don't know why you would want to have sex in the first place at 16, but then to have it without using a condom is just flat out silly.
You can't tell me that you didn't know you would get pregnant without using it. NO birth control is 100% safe from pregnancy or STD's. Hopefully you don't have one of those right now either.
Being that your b/f is 18 and you're only 16 can mean big problems for him too. It's called statutory rape of a minor. He should have known better than to even approach you with sex.
Do yourself a favor, get the test and take it immediately. Stop having sex too. Just because you've done it once...or in your words over 40 times now, doesn't mean you have to continue.
Tell him you don't want to anymore and mean it. Think about how you're feeling right now. worried about if you're pregnant or not and having to tell your parents.
At 16 you need to be out in groups with friends having fun, not sitting around waiting to see if a stick turns colors or has lines on it.
You may just get lucky this time and just have some kind of an infection, but you may not be so lucky next time.
Good luck!
2006-08-14 05:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by 317bossyaussie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Caryn...I think maybe be you are... You should get a pregnancy test. And wht were you thinking not using ne protection. P.S. Im 18 and Im still a virgin why ruin ur life now. If you are pregnant... No going out with friends, no partying, no dancing and no fun. you will be stuck home taking care of 1 or more babies.. trust me its hard I babysit a lot and I had to take care of 2 little babies...P.S. again.. When you have children there is no such thing called privacy... like going into the bathroom by urself
Kelsey: You probably are. Go and get a pregnancy test. And being pregnant isn't much fun either.
2006-08-14 06:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Caryn and Kelsey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're trying to get pregnant...especially after reading your other questions.
Bad idea.
Well my advice is to take a test or see a doctor. You'll need prenatal care or your baby could be born with serious problems. Also, if you have an ectopic or tubal pregnancy, avoiding the doctor could cost you your life.
There's a HUGE risk for teens having babies. What I mean is you're at risk for serious health problems for both you and your baby. It's not safe.
Of course you're not going to listen to me. I'm sure you want a baby because you're either under the misconception that a baby will give you unconditional love OR this is a means of 'keeping' your boyfriend. What you don't know is that babies are their own people and they won't love you unconditionally. If you're boyfriend is ever going to leave you, he'll do it whether you have a kid or not. Do you really want to be burdened with such a huge responsibility at such a young age? I mean forget college, parties, et cetera...
2006-08-15 05:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't very smart are you? First, get a pregnancy test whether you buy it at a store or go to a clinic. Second, if it's negative, go get on the pill. Third, start using condoms because he's probably been sleeping with other girls. If you're pregnant, I'd strongly recommend putting it up for adoption if you don't terminate because you are incredibly naive and immature, and have no business raising a baby.
2006-08-14 05:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by A nobody from Oklahoma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go to your local health dept. and get a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant then they can put you on some prenatal vitamins. Their will be a nurse their that you can talk to and arrange what the next step or doctor should be. If the test comes back negative then the nurse can give you some condoms or birth control pills. But please if you are pregnant, go get the prenatal care for the baby because it is so important
2006-08-14 05:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by FANNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell u doing having sex without a condom if i was u i would be smart and wait until iam married bad idea go to the doc our get am preg test i always have to say the same thing to peps over and over again u sould know what to do u you are the one having sex so many times acting like a adlut u are just immature jerk iam younger than u iam 13 and iam smarter damn this teens acting like adults go get a life
2006-08-14 06:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by coolbreeze493 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear you need to take a test that you know for sure no need of just walking around wondering and if your 16 sorry to here that you have just made a big mistake in life if you are learn from it
GOOD LUCK YOUR GOING TO NEED IT
2006-08-14 05:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG girl, it sounds to me like you may be!! Take a pregnancy test or get yourself to a doctor!! Prenatal care is very important for you and your baby!
2006-08-14 05:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont think you should wait. You need to see the doc. So they can see how far you are and give you vitamins. So that your baby will be healthy! And you also need to tell you boyfriend because he need to know!
2006-08-14 06:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probly r but just 2 make sure u should take a pregnancy test
2006-08-14 06:08:54 · answer #11 · answered by BleedingKiwi™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋