Last weekend I went to drop off my son to my baby daddy house. He ask me to come in and drop him off upstairs so I did. Then he went ahead grab my hand and pull me against him he try to kiss me the start to touch my breast. Then I told him stop that he need to give me the respect that I deserved. Then as well I told him that he had a girlfriend that has trust on him. As well he got very mad you could see it in the reflection on his face.
2006-08-14 05:42:58 · 28 answers · asked by sweetred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most people have already said this but don't go in to the house anymore. If it gets worse maybe y'all should pick up and drop of the baby at a neutral location, like McDonald's or something. You should tell the gf only if you have to because she is going to think you are lying to get him back.
2006-08-14 06:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW... Are all baby daddy's the same? Listen... Advice to you is, NO MORE COMING INTO THE HOUSE. I've been there, and beleive me, they don't stop until we MAKE them stop. It's what I call the No BS steps: (Check out #4)
1. No personal phone calls
2. No personal visits
3. No personal favors
4. No physical contact
5. No personal conversations
6. Complete cut-off from various:
A) Entering each other's vehicles
B) Entering each other's homes
C) Family functions, other than those of the child(dren)
D) Sexual favors
**These listed above are hard to do and will have immediate consequences, but with very noticeable progress with time.
Tip: Stand your ground and get yourself mentally and emotionally prepared for what's to come. This is like anything else in life. Takes some work, but success should be your only goal. Your success falls in your child's future. Your child's mother and father should not have an unhealthy unstable realtionship that is involved around LUST.
You will make your choices, just make them fast and hard. Always remember, "Be smart, don't follow your heart & Follow your mind, you WONT fall behind."
Make that boy respect you!!!! LOL!
2006-08-14 12:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by ControVerse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time don't go upstairs to drop of the baby & tell him that things have been over between you 2 if he continues to bother you threaten him that you will tell his girl friend if that doesn't work try to drop of the baby when you know she's around or have him pick up the babyat your place & make sure someone is there with you.
2006-08-14 12:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by roxy10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better watch out he could force himself on u and thats called rape, remember if he touches u in any way u dont feel comfortable or makes u do sexual things or forces himself on u its rape and tell someone, next time tell him he has to meet u downstairs ur not going upstairs...i wudnt take my baby there anymore but u probably want it to have a daddy. or arrange to drop off the baby in a public area or where there will be people around so nothing bad can happen to u..pls protect urself! he probably thinks that since u guys had sex before and now have a baby that he can get whatever he wants from u..dont allow urself to be that girl.
2006-08-14 12:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he doesn't respect any woman. Tell his girlfriend and drop your child off at the front door. She has a right to know.
2006-08-14 12:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind him that you two obviously broke it off for a reason. For God's sakes he's already in another relationship. Tell him you're not interested in him like that anymore, and that if he continues you will tell his new girl. If that doesn't straighten him out, invest in a carring size can of pepper spray. You have the right to defend yourself.
2006-08-14 12:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by **hope/faith**1744 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself in that position. Why in the world would you even go in to your baby's daddy's house? That's not necessary, he could have come and got him. He was just horny and you were at the wrong place at the wrong time. You should tell his girl.
2006-08-14 12:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree... you should definitely tell his girlfriend... or when you drop off the baby... you should just give the baby to him and then walk away instead of goin into his house or something. in a way keep ur distance. and try to talk to him about it... and confront him about how he has a girlfriend and how she wouldnt liek it if she found out what he was trying to do with you.
2006-08-14 12:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by curlie-ba-twirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont fall for the why dont you come upstairs to drop him off line next time.... If hes that much of a jerk, MOVE ON, and Dont let him use & abuse you like that.
2006-08-14 12:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't give it to him. Then, you will just end up his booty call. Also, your son may see it differently. He may think that there is a possibility of you guys getting together, and he will end up getting hurt. Tell his girlfriend what is going on.
2006-08-14 12:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋