2006-08-14 05:36:52 · 18 answers · asked by ZulkifleeAbd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry, DONT FOLLOW YOUR HEART. If you've moved on, then that's it. You should never look back at the past. Although, if the relationship was a good relationship and you broke up for a silly reason, then weigh it out. Always think of what good or bad can happen if you WERE to go back w/your ex-gal... I always say tho, that "They're an ex for a reason.. or many reasons."
2006-08-14 05:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by ControVerse 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's hard when kids are involved. It all depends upon what the reason was for the break up in the first place. Keep in mind that people don't change their ways, even over the course of a few months. Your happiness should come first, you can not make a happy life for your kids if you are unhappy. Then decide if this woman will truly be the best thing for you and your family. Usually relationships don't make it the second time around, it will seem better for a while, but then things seem to gravitate back to the same thing that made you break up in the first place. Although there is a rare chance that it might work. Only you know if she is worth a second chance. Good luck.
2006-08-14 05:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to consider a few things, like do you love her, what was really the cause of your break up and is the cause something that keeps occurring, look at the good and bad in that relationship and ask yourself if it is really worth saving. Then you look at what you can possibly benefit from moving on. Do you think you will be much happier and will you have a peace of mind? Just look at both situations and your heart will tell you what you need to do for you. Not for her or anyone else, but for you. Think about your happiness first. You sound like a sweet person. Good luck.
2006-08-14 05:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want? It's okay to be selfish now. Listen to what she has to say, but don't let it make up your mind. Whatever you do don't let her make you feel so bad that you do something that you don't want to do. You need to seriously think about where you're going in life, what you really want, and if you really think that you can fix things that happened in the past between you two. You need to make up your mind as quick as possible! No need for dragging it out or wasting time. Whichever way you choose you have a lot of work to do and need all the time you can get! You only live once so do what's best for YOU!
2006-08-14 05:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by xochewyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to set yourself up for another broken heart, go for it. I just ended my relationship of 2 1/2 years and have no thoughts of wanting to get back together with him. Even if he's changed for the better I'll always have in the back of mind he'll become the same person he was in the relationship and the reason I broke up with him.. Move on to bigger and better, you deserve to find the perfect woman. You broke up for a reason, focus on that reason and find someone else.
2006-08-14 05:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by mmcjacks13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself a bunch of questions. Why did the two of you break up? Was there a valid reason for the break-up? Did she misuse your trust? Was it her fault or yours? Do you still love her? Do you miss her?
The thing is, if you've already decided to go on with your life, than you don't miss her that much.
What will make you more happy? To go on without her? or be with her again?
2006-08-14 05:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by TT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question leaves a lot of info out that you know. Like what caused the break up.
You seem to know the answer already. Do what you think is best and move on with your life.
2006-08-14 05:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by acidcrap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi..... ask urself y does she wan a patach back first... if it's bcos she realise the importance of losing u den u may wan to consider givin her a chance. I always feel dat if u realli love her and u wan her to b part of ur life den try givin her another chance.
And the other question u should ask is haf u done something wrong to cause dis breakup? if nope den i think u just follow ur heart den... noone can tell u wat to do...it's all up to u.
If u still has got feelin for her, try to hang on to it...... in a relationship u haf to forgive and forget....
2006-08-14 15:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by wonderland83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to get together. Obviously she does to. But, if you don't then you have to let her know that you need to move on. That way she can move on also.
2006-08-14 05:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by kitty kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why you broke up and if you still want to be with her go for it.
2006-08-14 05:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by crazynlad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋