Why are men intrigued and drawn to lesbians? The sight of two women holding hands or arms always piques most men's interest. Men buy erotic magazines and adult DVDs of lesbian erotica. Men nowadays seem to consider a threesome with two bisexual girls the most crucial sexual conquest. However, is it right to compel girls to engage in lesbian acts just to satisfy a man? Shouldn't it be the woman who decides to "reward" her man with the joys of sharing a Sapphic encounter, which in itself is a very personal experience?
2006-08-14 05:32:30 · 23 answers · asked by Gail S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
some straight men watch too much porn. that stuff they watch is just fantasy. no "real" lesbian is going to let a straight man watch, let alone join in. we're lesbians! that means we're attracted to women! not men! to "compel" girls to engage in acts to "satisfy" the man is selfish as well. unless the girls are bi and into threesomes, then it ain't gonna happen.
2006-08-14 05:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one were to digress in history or shall we say in social evolution. I am sure we will find a primal instinct to mate with the best of the best. Now back to the present and see how things have changed. Some how our emotions got mixed up in the whole breeding process. Women have babies by strong smart athletic men who are the pick of the litter. Now weak DNA or those who were not meant to multiple have done our history a great disservice. In reaction to this the female has adapted or reverted to her more primal instinct so as in nature the male has followed.
Make a long story short. 2 women greater chance of reproducing, man is doing what exactly he is designed to do and so are women SURVIVE it is our feelings that have gotten in the way.
2006-08-14 05:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by NEC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know damn well why, Gail, love of my life. Men want to "conquer" not "cure." After they get their orgasm fix from two bisexual girls, they couldn't care if those chicks keep going at each other until doomsday. The male fantasy has been met. And some of the respondents are right-- no one wants to see Rosie O. get it on with her girlfriend, nice-looking though her girlfriend is. However, I don't think many guys were pulling their puds at the thought of Ellen D. and Anne H. going at it. But to be fair and balanced, I don't think anyone would want to see the Roseanne/Tom Arnold honeymoon videos either. And men who get off on seeing lesbians go at it aren't "closet cases" as the more radically inclined gay and lesbian respondents claim-- it's because they're walking testosterone sacks doing what comes natural to them whenever a hot broad enters their field of vision. Luv ya!
2006-08-15 03:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Liza S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ones who are fascinated by seeing women together, and who want 'threesomes' with lesbians each secretly think that given the chance, HE would would have what it takes to make them 'convert' and need for a man to satisfy them after that.
It's a male fantasy.
2006-08-14 05:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well gay men are not fascinated at all by lesbians but str8 males do tend to find the whole two women together thing interesting. I truly believe it is a throwback to when men had multiple wives, perhaps as some science is starting to show, humans truly are not monogamous.
2006-08-14 05:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are turned on to two women having a good time and want to be right in the middle enjoying it also. However, we want the porn treatment. Not a traditional lesbian relationship where one woman is a dime and the other one is about as masculine as we are. YUK!!! So that is what intrigues us. The porn menage a trois. Or Halle and J-lo getting it on with me. :D
2006-08-14 05:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by eplayerj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my society its particularly opposite you recognize? we've many women folk liking gay adult men yet not as many adult men liking lesbians. i think of the two a sort of deals with a turn-on factor rather than something. observing 2 women on one yet another is a turn-on for some adult men and observing 2 adult men on one yet another is a change on for some women. yet its in simple terms that, not something previous. If an identical guy's sister grew to become out to be a lesbian, he could be depressed previous doubt.
2016-10-02 01:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by olmeda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main reason is because of "No penis" in the films. A lot of men are insecure about their on penis sizes and are often intimidated by the sight of another penis. The other reason could be bi-curious men who use Lesbians as a excuse to deny the fact that they are attracted at the sight of a penis.
2006-08-14 05:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by redman9250 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They aren't. They are fascinated by the fantasy of two hot naked women making love either alone or with him in the mix.
Ask your male friends if they would want a 3sum with Rosie and her lover and you will see how quickly the fascination with real lesbians run out.
2006-08-14 06:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think they are fascinated mostly because they are imagining themselves there with the girls. i think they want to have both of the girls focused on satisfying them. but what they dont know is that girls that are really into girls are not going to want to satisfy him you know? threesomes are okay, but everyones intentions and expectations should be laid out beforehand. otherwise someone is bound to be disappointed. i had a threesome where me and the chic were totally into each other and the poor dude was just trying to get in where he fit in. those guys arent clear what lesbianism is all about. its about WOMEN! its not about them. they just dont get it thats all!
2006-08-14 05:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lovely L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋