If i cant have a good, normal life, then i will have to bring it too an end, though failure.?

Question

I WILL leave the school i'm in, and go and live out on the streets. Then, in a matter of days, i wil go hungry, then die. This world will be better of without me being around

Answer 1

Grow up and stop throwing a pity party.

Answer 2

OK. You're not accomplishing anything by believing you are a failure. What you need to do is STAY in school and get your education so that you can be successful.
Secondly, clean out your issues. People can sense that you have a low self esteem and they don't want to be connected to that. This is why you don't have any friends. This also shows you're not ready for a girlfriend.
Get yourself in shape. Get out in nature and breath in some fresh air, Get some exercise to build your energy. This will help you get some motivation for positive thinking. Go get a new look. Maybe change your hair or get a new style in the way you dress. It helps and gives you something to want to live for.
Try church. They have support groups and you can make friends there. Learn to laugh with yourself a little bit. Watch a comedy movie or think of something that makes you laugh. There is healing in laughter.
You gotta stop dwelling on your depression. By doing this, you are keeping yourself from building a solution to your troubles.
Talk to a counselor if necessary. Suicide will never be the answer. There is no excuse for why you can't succeed like anyone else.

Answer 3

Why do u think u don't have a good life? if u have even one person who cares about u, u have a point in life. dont ever think that u should not be in this world.

Answer 4

why do you say that? Everyone has a purpose in life, you might not like the way your life is going now, but your not supposed to give up on anything.........just remember, everyone has to hit rock bottom before they go up....

Don't do anything that could ruin your life.

Answer 5

That's horrible thinking honey! Things will get better. they always do.Life is a circle of crap that never ends but don't despair. You'll have your good years and bad years!

Answer 6

Please Don't think that way it is very selfish think about all the people you would hurt if u left . Its not our choice to be here but its our choice to try and make the best of it

Answer 7

ok.. stop it! :) first of all... u have a choice. u ALWAYS have a choice....and u are making the choice "i WILL leave school." you don't have to. why are u doing it? to make a "point"? to "show" someones that they've won? =T... the thing is, if u think no one cares so much, then why do u care so much what they will think? don't do ANYTHING for other people..do it for urself. therefore, that means if things are going bad, u can't always depend on others to make it better, u can Only depend on URSELF to make things better. or at least TRY. don't do negative things cuz of other people and how they make u feel useless, or worthless.... do positive things for yourself to make u feel good, healthy and happy. u are partly giving up because you feel like no one cares, no one likes you.... but if u don't believe in urself, how would anyone else?

what u need to do, is work on yourself. become someone YOU Like. it doesn't mean ur life is going to be perfect; no one's life is perfect, not even a rich celebrity. there's ALWAYS going to be negativity, problems, etc. what u need to do is become the kind of person who can KEEP GOING, BE STRONG, STAY POSITIVE, thru Any kind of obstacle. how are u going to do that?? by gaining Confidence. stop comparing urself to people. stop being jealous about not having "enough". it may be true that u were not lucky enough to have a supportive family, or good friends around you.... and i'm sorry for that. but DO NOT let that Stop you from becoming someone that you like! from enjoying good things in life! from learning, growing, and becoming a strong, confident person. You are Worth It. you just need to figure out WHY. but everyone has a chance to be Happy, just as they have the same chance to be Sad. you need to try everything you can to figure out what makes you happy. what makes you tick. what makes you grow. and the only way u can do that in this world, is have confidence in urself that u have the Ability to learn. that's all u need.

so, what don't u like about urself? is it ur looks? does it make u self conscious? it's ok, everyone feels that way. the key is, if u work on it, u will see results and at the same time Feel Accomplished *because* u are working on it. so, exercise, go walking, go running, get some stress out. buy some new clothes that are flattering. ask salespeople or friends or family for advice, or look at magazines for latest styles. don't be scared..trying on doesnt' mean u have to buy it! get a new haircut. try out new products that will make ur skin and hair better. when u spend time on urself, u will feel that you are worth something.

next, are u feeling "stupid"? do u feel that people look at u and don't see a person? do u feel that they see you as not smart? it doesn't matter what they think.... it matters what U think. u have a brain..use it. the best thing about being a person, is that u have ur Own Mind, and no one can force you to do anything. so, do it for yourself: study harder, work harder in school, ask teachers and adults for advice, for help (they've been there, they know what life is like). but *remember*...only keep positive, healthy people around u. if a teacher or student is mean and judgemental, Ignore them. do not lean on those kind of people. continue to work hard to find someone who can give u Good advice, someone who can help you be Healthier. if no one is around that is like that, u have to do it for urself. but remember, you are Worth it. those people aren't, and u don't have to worry about them. let them go on their own business, u have your own stuff to do!!! read the news, study more on what interests you, be able to have enough knowledge to discuss any topic in general, because you are using ur brain and can start developing ur own Opinions. u don't have to be right or wrong; that's what's great about talking and debating w/ people.. as long as u have an open mind, u can learn and teach other people who have open mind as well. :)

once u are feeling better about ur appearance, and your mind, u won't feel as "dumb" or "worthless" anymore..use that to Help you talk to family, friends, and even strangers! because wanting to learn immediately shows that you are NOT DUMB. wanting to be better, learn more, shows motivation, and automatically u are Someone. so use that confidence to help you talk more w/ people..remember u don't always have to be Right or have a lot of friends.. because you want Good friends, not just any old person who is mean. like i said, the more people u talk to and get to know and learn to maintain and grow relationships, the more people u have to choose from to filter out the Positive, healthy, happy, confident people, and ignore the Negative, Depressed, Unhelpful, Mean people around you. because you are helping urself become a Positive person, u don't need anyone else, and you have more to Offer to those who need someone like you, and those who LIKE peope like u!

and as long as there are Opportunities in life, and you can see them, you will always have a Choice. whether or not u make the right decision isn't always the point; the point is that u are able to pick urself up, brush it off, LEARN from ur mistakes, and try something new. THAT shows character and strength; and u know what? WHO CARES what others think? ur life could be so different regardless of what they think...and they don't even KNOW you! so if they don't care if u live or die, the only one who will care is yourself... take advantage of that.

if u ever have time, take a look at Romans 5-8.... it really opened my eyes recently. you have all the opportunities in the world to make things better, to use ur experiences to make you better. whatever happened in the past, it Doesn't Matter....what does matter is how you choose to live ur life AFTER those bad things. and thru Jesus, we are all forgiven. for past, present and future sins. the past doesn't matter anymore, and neither do future mistakes; what DOES matter is ur ability to start over again, and KNOW that u are already forgiven. it's hard, but once u accept it, u will learn to love yourself and stop punishing urself for the past. use it to learn the positive things in life, and then let it go.