2006-08-14 05:03:36 · 39 answers · asked by spidermike 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes. I doubt you'd be very comfortable with someone telling you when and where you can masturbate, so give him the same respect. It's certainly not cheating. He's going to fantasize about other women - just about everybody fantasizes about people they're not with - and so long as he's not out looking for action on the side, what does it matter?
2006-08-14 05:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by effin drunk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do not like it then it is not unfair you will need to discuss it with him. If you don't it will eventually eat you up and destroy your relationship. You may want to ask him why he feels the need and discuss why it is you don't like him doing it. If you can understand each other on this point you will find a way forward. Men watching porn is like babies that poo in their nappies. We all do it from time to time, it doesn't mean we don't love our girlfriend's, wives or whatever. However some people are addicted to porn and you may also want to check that this is not the issue (be very careful with the addiction one only approach it if you think it is the case) good luck
2006-08-14 05:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by pete m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, I feel exactly the same. I personally love porn and like to watch it with my boyfriend, but it kind of loses its appeal to me when I am on my own! Yet he still watches it if I am not there. The way I look at it is that you have to accept that blokes play with themselves more than girls and at least you know he is thinking about something he an never have rather than the girl at the fish n chip shop while he is doing it!
2006-08-14 05:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by kerrykinsmalosevich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the macho idiots that seem to think they are funny hon. If he wants to watch it on his own there can be a few different reasons why.
As for your feelings of unrest, they could well be a jealousy feeling over the actresses and how he is reacting to them. Don't worry about this though, all men react the same when the lights go down so do the zippers. It's all part of the fun and games for them.
Let him watch alone if he wishes, it's you he loves (I presume) they are just candy.
2006-08-17 22:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! I'm exactly the same! I get jealous if i find out he's had a bit of fun without me. But deep down i know it's unfair of me because if I'm horny and on my own i don't hesitate before doing something about it, so who am i to get mad at him when he does the same?!
2006-08-14 05:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand him wanting some privacy at times. But I also understand your wondering why he feels the need to do this. So I don't think you're being all that unfair.
2006-08-14 05:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is.
Porn has nothing to do with love, committment or relationships, it's pure fantasy and if it turns you both on to watch it together so much the better.
If your boyfriend likes to fantasise alone that's cool too but it's not about your relationship so don't feel threatened.
2006-08-14 05:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by paul w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a problem with porn then forbid the b/f watching it on his own..there are 2 of you in the relationship not one person. i have a problem with porn myself, i cant get enough and when the missus says thats it and takes my dvd's away i take a hissy fit.
2006-08-14 05:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just wondering what the difference in you watching it with him and him watching it by himself is? Do you think he acts differently watching it by himself? Do you watch porn by yourself?
2006-08-14 05:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by texasrednek2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He is an adult, and if you watch together, you can't forbid him to watch alone. Sometimes guys need to be alone and watch porn
2006-08-14 05:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋