I have been with my boyfriend since 10th grade; it has now been four years. But since I was in group homes and foster care I found out about leisbians. I knew about gay guys. I look at girls now and desire them. They way they have their slim body and hairless legs and back, their beatiful eyes and lips, and they way they try to stay beautiful all the time.I feel bad, I dont know how to let my boyfriend know that I think I like girls. Or is it that i am just going mad? Is there somthing wrong with me for desiring this?
2006-08-14 04:49:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I had a girlfriend for three years from 11th grade on and it was the same thing (except I liked guys, hehe). I thought there was something wrong with it, but eventually we broke up and afterwards she was the first person I came out to and she was totally supportive and everything -- even was my "date" at some of the pro-gay community stuff I would attend. But no, there is nothing wrong with thinking like that. If you truly feel that you are gay, however, it would be unfair never to tell your boyfriend.
2006-08-14 04:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit trying to label, or find what is right or wrong. Don't label yourself as "bi" either....it could be a phase...but chances are you are being more honest with yourself as you have gotten older. The truth is many people are not bound at all to one gender or another. Some just find themselves attracted to certain types of people. Maybe you are like me and appreciate and are attracted to those who are beautiful, slim, take care of themselves and have some lovely feature.....be it boy or girl. Do you also like boys who are slim with pretty lips and less body hair? Well there you go.
2006-08-14 11:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded Ruby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give your self plenty of time and education. Read up on the subject. Go to the gay section of a book store. Visit a gay lesbian center.
Could you be bi or are you more lesbian?
Don't be afraid. Have faith in your self and God.
2006-08-14 12:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest... tell him and work it out between the two of you BEFORE you go out gallyvanting around scouting for a chick...
2006-08-14 13:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you think is right.
2006-08-14 11:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU GO GIRL
2006-08-14 12:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHILL!!
2006-08-14 12:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...
2006-08-14 11:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by Tamsin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋