we have a hot tub in are garden and we let are next door use it as well. I was in it the other day and there daugter who is 19 came to use it she just hade bottoms on. and said u dont mind do u. i said know thinking o my god. then whe she was sat there she tuched m. know i would think u lucky sod but it's my next door's girl. should i say to her mother or my wife. or just think it was a accedent u lucky sod
2006-08-14 04:33:35 · 12 answers · asked by ringer6942 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow if i was her i wouldn't even go there with my top of who does she think she is she must like you i would 4get about it tell them not to come over anymore or put a sign on your privacy fence if you have 1 and it say ALL CLOTHES MUST BE ON BE4 U COME IN THE HOT TUB your wife will think its funny and tell the 19 year old to keep her bathing suit on and not to tell your wife pick me 4 best answer
2006-08-14 04:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by joelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...you're lucky...you got a little thrill...but i'd cut it off in the bud so that she doesn't start blackmailing you for use of the hot tub or something else. and besides, what do you think your wife would say?? forget about her mother, since really, all she can do is get pissy because her daughter is 19 and legal, and as such, she can't press charges. you gotta stop this right now tho.
2006-08-14 11:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the view. She is 19 and able to make her own decisions. If it bothers you for her to that in your pool, then tell her. She is too old to be running to her parents.
2006-08-14 11:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easier said then done but avoid such a situation...your wife will explain with much more detail why...but take my word for it...don't let it get out of hand...or in her hand if ya know what I mean.
2006-08-14 11:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your neighbors to use it only at a time when ur sure ur not gonna be in it so like they wont blackmail u and stuff and make it clear to the girl that she's too young and ur married and dont tell anyone its way too risky
2006-08-14 11:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since it's in the past I would say let it go, as long as you didn't send any signals that you were interested. Anyway, just make sure you make it perfectly clear with your neighbors they are welcomed to use it when it's not occupied.
2006-08-14 11:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your neighbors and your wife about it. Tell them they/daughter are not allowed to use your hot tub anymore. YOu could get germs/diseases from them for all you know.
2006-08-14 12:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, you should play tune in Tokyo!
2006-08-14 11:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell anyone I guess.But that's just wrong especially if you're married.
2006-08-14 11:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by turtle_rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why say anything,,, just enjoy the view
2006-08-14 12:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋