How do you get a girl to like you?

Question

What do girls look for in a boy, what must a boy have to be liked?

Answer 1

Be yourself, take an interest in the things she does, listen to her when she talks, and be confident. 90% of the game right there, buddy.

Answer 2

Wow. That's a general question. How old are you?
Not all girls are the same you know. Soooo it depends on what kind of girl you're making a move on. Some might like a talkative, charismatic guy. Others might like guys that are quiet and nice. Men have been seeking an answer to this question for many centuries. If the did actually find an answer, then the mystery of romance would be lost forever.

Answer 3

Don't try too hard! Treat them as friends first and take a little time to get to know them (and whether you actually like the person they are, as well as the packaging), listen to them (men and women both like best those who listen well) and more than anything else, relax, smile and have fun! People are most attracted to those who look happy and confident (if you don't feel that way, try just pretending for a while, you'll be surprised how after a while it becomes real!). All of the above is what my son reckons worked for him out of all the advice I gave him, hope it helps you too.

Answer 4

Hmmm, it really depends upon the girl, but as a former girl (now woman), I would say that girls look for a guy with a good sense of humor (can make them laugh, but stay clear of the offensive jokes), well-groomed (clean clothes, clean-smelling: you can go for the messy hair look, but make sure it's washed!), doesn't pretend to be something he's not. Girls like confident guys: if you're not good at sports, that's okay-you've got to be good at something else, so show off your actual talent: girls love guys who play/sing/write music, are great artists, etc. Just be yourself: When guys get nervous they try and act "cool" and usually end up looking like jerks. Don't go for the snobby girls-it's usually a waste of your time (in fact, if you ignore the snobby girls, they'll start paying attention to you). Always treat people nicely unless they are rude to you-then stand up for yourself.

As for the "nice" girls: well, they get nicer if you're nice to them and cuter, too. They just need someone to pay attention to them and then BOOM! They blossom.

I know teen guys who aren't the best-dressed (aka most expensive clothes), are intelligent (and don't try to hide it), might not be the most popular or the "best-looking," and creative-and they have girlfriends because they are themselves and happy to be so.

So the moral is: be yourself and girls will like you. They might already and not know how to tell you.

Answer 5

First of all you cant get a girl to like you, no matter how much you impress her or anything, yea, she will be amused at it but that doesnt mean she will ever like or love you...... Every girl has a type of boy she likes.. some like a handsome, nice, romantic boy while others like a bad boy type of boy whos popular and rich.... All you got to do if you want some one to like you, just be yourself, dont act weird if thats your style, dont show too much of it... just relax, play kool and safe.. get to be friends with her... show her the real you, that you can seriously pleased a woman without the sexual tension.....

Answer 6

Be yourself...if you try to turn yourself into someone you are not, to attract women, the 'real' you will eventually show through and the girls will feel deceived.

Be the best person you can be...have gentlemanly qualities...other than that, people will either like you for who you are, or not...those that do not, aren't folks you'd really want in your life anyway...

Answer 7

Passion. Even though its not the first thing that girls will think of when they decide what they like in a guy, it is a necessity for a guy to have passion for something, whether its singing, cars, your beliefs, whatever. It's definitely an important quality.

Answer 8

!is there god? come on this is too general and i think i already know all the answers you'll get "be yourself" be pleasant, funny ,clever ritch interesting etc the truth is that girls are interested in goodlooking guys if you are not then you must be some of the above.Good luck

Answer 9

Really be yourself and try to act confident, not arrogant! Be self assured, show interest and you're half way there! Sounds to me like you need to pick yourself up a bit, join a gym its great for fitness, looks and confidence!

Answer 10

Believe in yourself, present an atmosphere that you are in control of yourself and surroundings. Dress nice, and have good hygiene. Be yourself, don't "act" or be different to impress. Know yourself and your fears. Put yourself in situations you are comfortable with. Be honest. Don't talk too much, be a good listener. Don't agree, just to agree. Be sincere. Know your looks are the most important thing, it's who you are inside that is. In private, take notes of her likes and dislikes....it impresses them that you listen to them and you remember. Don't be too pushy....IF YOU WATER A ROSE TOO MUCH, IT DIES!!!

Answer 11

Every girl likes different things. be yourself and you'll find a girl who likes that and it will last. If you like a girl and she doesn't know you exist just be upfront - tell her you like her dress sense, or her car or whatever seems appropriate and start chatting. Don't push it but if she likes you she'll be keen to chat.