me and my b/f have been going out for 3 months now. He's told me that he doesn't love me but cares about me a lot and wants to be with me. The other week i slept with him and everything went great. he sometimes messes me around though, like some lads tend to do. This morning though my mum found out id slept with him. she was so upset it was untrue. she said shes going to stop me frm seeing him. i dont know wat to do... should i stay with him? or should i go? I NEED HELP!!!
2006-08-14 04:19:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girlfriend please hear me ! Guys use LOVE to get SEX. Gals use SEX to get LOVE. Thats why they say man are from mars, women are from venus. You want to feel wanted. And he wants to release his urge. Do you want to be his depositary. Sorry to be crude. But your mom is right. Sure everyone is doing it. Nip it in the bud. Move on. He is using you. Using you. Get out. Wake up.
Say you continue, and you start to also enjoy sex and you continue but now what you continue is a sexual relationship. Not right. What love ! Then you get all pregnant, then abortion then your life is messed up and how old are you ?
Guys think with their testerone. Gals think with their feelings. Never shall the twain meet other than marriage.
May the Lord Jesus preserve your soul.
2006-08-14 04:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mother and tell her that she can't do this to you.That you're going to continue to see him.Don't let her interfere with your personal life.Also tell her that you are old and mature enough to sleep with you b/f.She can't tell you what to do.It also sounds like that he's using you for sex.How can he tell you that he doesn't love you but cares about you?Maybe the two of you needs to sit down and you ask him what his intentions are with you.Usually by 3 months,the guy will tell his g/f that he loves her.Or maybe he's a bit shy with saying that he loves you.
2006-08-14 11:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by turtle_rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you, you mom cant stop u from seeing someone if u are over 18 just stay with him ur momma will get over the fact yall slept together its gonna happen u know
2006-08-14 11:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by polarbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't fault him for being honest...be sure your decision to sleep with him has nothing to do with keeping him interested in you...sex does not result in love...so far you haven't made the best choices and perhaps you should listen to your mother before you suffer the consequences sex can result in.
2006-08-14 11:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you are the prom queen, dont return his call for a whole day. Refrain from calling him. Trust me he will really stary to worry and crave you.
2006-08-14 11:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by chicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you for sex. He said to your face "I don't love you", which should give you a hint. Listen to your mom for once and dump the guy.
2006-08-14 11:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could stay with him and not sleep with him (especially sice he says he's not in love with you), and if that's not acceptable to him, definitely break it off.
2006-08-14 11:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Random 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to do what u think is right in ur heart
2006-08-14 11:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure he doesn't love you and that was absolutely obvious.listen to your mum.he's just using you girl.
2006-08-14 11:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by chicky_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he tells u he doesnt love u?....uhh he's messin with ur head...not worth it....and y would u sleep with him then?
2006-08-14 11:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋