cause he wants to be with my friend and also have this girl that is having his kid. but he does not believe her cause she was goin out with someone else
2006-08-14 04:13:25 · 18 answers · asked by missy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Steer clear.....he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Playa alert!!!!!
2006-08-14 04:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if "this girl" who is pregnant was going out with someone else, it is tacky for him to say the kid isn't his. Why doesn't he wait and find out. Your friend should probably stay away from him; at least until he gets this pregnancy thing straightened out.
2006-08-20 16:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, a true friend or a friend "with benefits"?
Do you really want to get involved with his drama, because honey, you will be if you do. That child, if it's his, will ensure that that it and its mother will be in your face along with his no matter how long you stay.
If you can, you can keep your distance until the dust settles on the paternity issue.
2006-08-20 08:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is clear to me, and it is seems to me; that this guy is playing with you baby. could be better, if you finish with him and find a better man, without problems. He is a troublemaker, and you will suffer at the end .Look and find the way out, before is too late.
There are many guys,good men close to the place where you live.Trust me.But it is all up to you.This is my humble answer.Good luck.
2006-08-21 20:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him behind. He had unprotected sex with a girl and is not taking responsibily for it. Don't get caught in the middle of this. There are plenty more guys out there without those problems.
2006-08-21 02:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your friend know all of this? If so, be there when he hurts her and she needs a friend. If she doesn't know, then it could get complicated. She could get mad at you for telling her and causing her hurt or she will thank you for waking her up to this problem
2006-08-22 00:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by mysticideas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like one big mess to me unless he is not seeing her at all and you are willing to help out with the kid if he is about to become a father.
2006-08-22 03:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is not get involved.That's an accident waiting to happen,and you don't want to be in the middle of it.
2006-08-21 14:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do. The guy doesn't know which path he's going to choose, and although we'd like to be able to direct people they're going to do what they want to do rather than what we'd like them to do.
2006-08-22 09:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you can't really do anything. All you can do is be there for your friend during the times that she needs you most. It can be really frusterating when you can't do anything for a friend when you really feel like you need to. It's normal to feel this way.
2006-08-14 11:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a baby maker is all, he will take you like a thief in the night and be gone day break.tell him to take a hike.
2006-08-22 10:01:04 · answer #11 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋