hes a bisexual who was in a gay relationship for 9 years before we met each other. I used to be a hoover vaccum, I could give a man a b-l-o-w-j-o-b everyday. Its my favorite thing to do. For some reason when it comes time to go down on my fiance I freeze up. I strat thinking, "hes given so many more b-l-o-w-j-o-b-s than I have," and I start questioning my skill at it. Which is silly because I know from personal experience that I am very good at it. What can I do to quit thinking that and give him the b-l-o-w-j-o-b he deserves?
2006-08-14 04:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Honey, you are not in a competition to see who has given the best bjs. Looks like you've had plenty of expertise, so you should go down on the guy and do the best you can--I'm sure he'll enjoy every minute of it.
2006-08-14 05:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kookoo Bananas 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
IF this is the worst problem in your life, you are blessed! How in the hell is he supposed to know how good his blow jobs are??? do you really think he can give himself one?????? If he could, he wouldn't need anybody. Good grief, girl, do you think these things are really compared that much? Well, they aren't . It is either good or it is bad...little in between. So go to it, you are not being compared with anyone else..do what YOU like to do, to hell with him. IF he likes it, great. IF he doesn't, he will be the first to tell you what to try, what not to do. Just keep your teeth off the thing and everyone will be happy. Now, get to it and stop coming up with silly excuses.
2006-08-14 05:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me, I'm in grade 8 and would love that but I have the sense to know what can come out of that. The fact that he would break up with you means he's only daiting you so you can pleasure him. Break up with him.
2016-03-16 22:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try counseling...
Seriously, talk to him about your fear. It's not like he sucks himself off to really compare your technique and what feels good to him. Relax...
2006-08-14 06:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it. If he's your fiance, he'll love it anyway you do it
2006-08-14 04:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, be honesty. disclose to him the facts you have disclosed to us so freely... Give him the opportunity to encourage you, and convince you your issues are not a concern to him... if you owe him anything at all... it is honesty even in uncomfortable situations... if after talking to him about this you don't come to a resolution you might talk to him about the option of seeing a sex counselor.. you both deserve to be comfortable in whatever you do together... chances are if you are uncomfortable... he is too
2006-08-14 06:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you can compete with the gays in the bj department. But just do it anyway and it will be OK and he will appreciate you for the effort and that you care enought about him to do it.
2006-08-14 05:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! Give the best performance of your life and there is no doubt that he will enjoy it. If not, maybe he can give you some pointers!
2006-08-14 04:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just do it, there's no such thing as a bad ********!
2006-08-14 04:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by Harry_Cox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you will never know how it turns out until you try!
2006-08-14 04:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋