i am in a terrible problem ....plz help.?

Question

i always said to my self i will do it , i will study more, i will be more serious, i will be more better and responsible person ,i will and i will and i were serious and really want to did what i promise my self but i don't know why i maybe forget or bored or cant but i never commit and being like this will destroy my life i feel i am just a big liar


i am serious plz help me and be seriouse

Answer 1

If you want to achieve something, which I think you do, then set yourself a couple of goals that you can achieve and work towards them. When you get there, give yourself a reward, something you like that'll make you feel happy.

Study is a pain in the butt but its worthwhile when you get through it all, at times we all want to give up, but just think of the future and imagine how much better off you'll be if you complete your education. Don't give up, you can do it :-)

Answer 2

Every goal in life is important. cleaning a street is as important as going to the moon... Self esteem is the key.
Position yourself as a novice willing to learn, and not afraid of failures, and you will be better off with your mind and more relaxed towards any event of life.
You sound to me you are a very good person, aiming high, too high maybe. That' is great, but TIME is the key. You cannot achieve everything at once. Prioritize tasks, and go on step by step. You are the kind of guy who is finally going to make it with the touch of perfection, because you want to look into details.
When you commit to something crunch your jaws and go for it until you do it. The first time will open doors to the rest of your life. Good luck.

Answer 3

Okay, one calm down and take a deep breath. Two, I know exactly what you're going through because I went through the same thing myself. Life can get complicated sometimes so I had to learn to pace myself. I learned something that might work for you. Take a sheet of paper and make some goals for yourself each day. For example, you say you want to study more. Put what you're studying and an alloted amount of time that you think you can handle. If you achieve that goal, try a longer amount of time and you'll be able to train yourself to study longer and become a better student in the process. I really hope this helps you. Try it and you'l suceed in life. :)

Answer 4

When you make promises to yourself, you have to figure out how to make them actually happen. Just saying the words can make you feel guilty, dishonest and overwhelmed with remorse and self-pity.
First thing to do is tell yourself you are OK just the way you are.
I mean that!
If you don't like yourself, enjoy your own company, and have fondness for even your failings, you will have a difficult time changing anything.
Would you work for someone who doesn't like you and talks ugly to you all day? I wouldn't. I would be a lot happier, and willing to work for someone who thought I was funny, and valuable and interesting. Someone who patted me on the back when I succeeded and told me I was still a great person, even when I failed.
Set little MEASURABLE goals. and tell yourself how great you are when you do them. Do not talk ugly to yourself. Write down your goals, and check them off as you do them. KEEP the records, so you have a paper-trail showing your success to yourself. For instance:
30 minutes of studying-no distractions, no fooling around. Then give yourself as treat-like 5 minutes of looking out the window and day-dreaming.--set a timer.
"better" person"? sorry -you are as good as you get. ACT mor responsibly, ok-be where you say you are going to be./ help out around the house without complaining.
Practice telling the truth-especially when it is hard- You will be a more reliable person overnight.----It will be so good for your opinion of yourself. And I don't mean to tell your friend her butt looks big-not that truth, but yes, mom, I was at the mall.
Once you start being who you say you are-you will automatically be nicer person, and more reliable.
You can commit to being true to a person you like, a person you are proud of. Be patient with yourself and gentle. Forgive yourself and keep going. You will automatically be forgiving of other people's failings.
You sound very young. You are not going to ruin your life-jsut be kind and teach yourself to be what makes you proud.
Hang in there, honey.

Answer 5

No... u are not a liar at all.. what ever u have thinked off is good cause atleast u have tried to think about your bad habbit... it doesnt counts whether u have passed or failed. or u have kept your promise or not but the thng which counts is purity of your heart if your heart is pure than there is nothn wrong u have done and still if u face problem



than alwayz remember on thing


if u can't change somethng, then accept that thing..


and one more thng.


If u are not happy in what you are than u can't become happy after becoming somethng else..

Answer 6

You're not a "liar" for that. Willpower is a difficult thing. People have great intentions but getting yourself to stick to it over the long haul can be tough.

I'd recommend committing yourself to a couple of SMALL things first. And really stick to it. After that, you might find that sticking to the harder things gets easier.

Peace.

Answer 7

Eat healthy food, drink a lot of water and take one table spoon of honey before breakfast if possible.
Sleep enough hours not less than 7 hours.
Get fresh air by walking one hour early morning or after sun set.
Take your daily shower one hour befor you go for work or for study.
Set a plane with date and time. start with the most important thing you have to do (like a task plane).
Reward your self each time you do the job by doing things you really like or enjoy like swimming, playing any kind of sports, go to moves, for short travels , parties,or any. then go back to the next task . good luck

Answer 8

You really should talk to a therapist or a Doctor. You could have some issues that you aren't aware of since you seem sincere. It could also be a medical problem. I had graves disease once upon a time and it caused me to do things I wouldn't ordinarily do so you might have something wrong with you that caused you to not do the things you intend to.

Answer 9

it happens at times when v know what v shud do but v cant do that or v dont do it happened with me when i was in my senior secondary and i didnt study to my utmost capacity and still now i repent not that i got less marks but i felt bad that i didn't give in my 100%.the satisfaction that comes from giving in Ur cent percent is the biggest award and reward.if u can try art of living course it is also nice just remember the time that will pass will never come back best of luck

Answer 10

I was in a similar situation at one time.

My advice is simple.
When in crisis, go back to the basics: balance your lifestyle, cut any intoxicants. Exercise, avoid isolation.

Then also focus on small things that you CAN do instead of
getting involved in things that would be too difficult at the moment.

When acknowledging that you can't do everything,you won't feel that guilty.