We didnt think that we wanted any more children. (we have 2 one each from our last marriages, one is 2 yrs. old and one is 9). And now i am pregnant, and i dont think i can give it up. How do i discuss this with my boyfriend? How do i make the best decision for my whole family?
2006-08-14 03:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by blondie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
all you can do it talk to him and hope that he understands these things just happen. To me it's god's way of saying he tought it was time for another precious life to come along. Just hope that he has a heart and says everything will be all right.
2006-08-14 03:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by littlecloieinttown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not have planned on any more children but there's one on the way. You have been with this man for 2 years and are pregnant with his child. You should be able to discuss it without much problem, I would think. In not, the problem is not the pending parenthood but with your relationship with him. Under the circumstances, I can't imagine how anything but keeping this child would be in everyone's best interest, especially the one on the way. Your kids are old enough to understand what giving this child up for adoption is and could cause emotional repercussions within them, more than just concerns of you giving them up, too. They've already had to deal with the break-up of their parents. It's sad that we don't give our kids more stability and value.
2006-08-14 04:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. Children are a blessing and you and your bf are going to have a baby (since you've said you can't give it up).
Make sure you have some alone time with your boyfriend and tell him in a neutral and positive voice.
If you decide you don't want any more children after this baby is born, then you can have your tubes tied or he can have a vasectomy.
2006-08-14 03:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well y not just tellh im and see if u both can decide to keep the baby and be happy..... U'll regret any bad decision u make I noo what i'm telling you..... also next time get on the pill or condoms or just get u'r tubes tied after u have the baby!!
2006-08-14 03:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him. There is no reason that you should not discuss it. The best thing for your family should be decided by the whole family.
2006-08-14 03:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means, keep the baby. The baby is a part of both of you,and you need to hold onto that. Take your time and it will work in your favor.Pray.
2006-08-14 03:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Gerald W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question lies within your own heart and circumstances. I think you should discuss it with your boyfriend, and maybe that's when you'll get your answer.
2006-08-14 03:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either abort or have it. Then ligate your tubes.
2006-08-14 05:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better get w/ the talking...and next time dont let it happen
2006-08-14 03:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by scarlet_bat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋