2006-08-14 03:38:09 · 25 answers · asked by Chri 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If that's your thing, what's the problem? Theres thousands of men like you, and loads of forums and websites about it too!
You're not doing anyone any harm
2006-08-14 03:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Stephen H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can keep a thing like that from her for ever she is bound to find out sooner or later, i know it would be hard to tell her if you are unsure of how she will react. You could come up with some excuse to wear a pair and see how she reacts maybe gardening in the winter or walking the dog when it is cold, i remember my brother asking me for a pair of tights to keep him warm when he was doing a paper round i was happy to let him have a pair (i could see the sense in the tights on a cold morning but the satin wonderbra baffled me lol) but of course not everyone is the same.
At the end of the day its hardly the most terrible thing you could do but a secret will eat you up and could strain your relationship.
2006-08-14 12:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a committed and loving, lasting and trusting relationship with your girlfriend, then you should find time to sit her down and tell her. Explain to her why you like doing it, maybe the way they feel, or that it lets you express your feminine side (everybody has both sides in them, it depends which is more dominant). Tell her you have tried not to wear them, but that it is a part of you and has been for some time, and that you want to share everything with her. Tell her you understand she may find this weird at first, but that if she could accept this as part of you it would mean so much to you. She may react very strongly and if she cannot accept you like that, then she ultmately is not the right person for you. Hopefully, she will accept it, and maybe even be a little curious and great if she isn't at all bothered by you wearing them when she is with you, however, if she isn't keen, explain to her that you will not wear them when she is around out of respect for her feelings. It sounds like a heavy deal to have to reveal your deepest secrets, but we all have them, and if she is worth anything, she will appreciate that you have told her something so important and personal, even if she doesn't feel comfortable with it, and it would be so much worse than if she found out somehow without you telling her. Best of luck.
2006-08-14 12:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tefi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby does it and I assume used to do it behind my back. Before he told me he asked to borrow some for under his trousers on a cold building site - it made sense to me. After a while he started taking the trousers off after work but stalling about taking of his tights. I kinda worked it out myself for there!
2006-08-14 16:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by beflihippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you've changed the tights in the ten years. Let her know. If she doesn't like it then maybe she ain't for you. There shouldn't be secrets in a relationship.
2006-08-14 10:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by ticklemonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are a male who likes to do this without his female girlfriend's knowledge. I would sugget you at least tell her. If she can handle it and it doesn't bother her than cool. But if she finds out (and these things always get found out) I am sure that she will be pissed. If for no other reason than you kept it from her.
2006-08-14 10:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Terra T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends really,
A) theres nothing wrong in what you do, its YOUR life/LEGS
B) will the thrill be gone if she knew?
sometimes the 'naughty' goes away when the thrill of being caught is gone..
C) if she did know, what do you think her reaction would be?
she SHOULD accept it, but after all this time, and she doesnt know? she might feel like you kept a big part of you from her,
and THAT my friend is why if it was ME, I'd be a bit miffed..
i'd wonder why you couldnt have told me BEFORE
good luck
nice legs btw
2006-08-14 10:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you and your girlfriend never have sex or never undress in front of each other. If you like wearing them then go ahead but don't be surprised when she finds out and calls you a freak and runs out the door!!
2006-08-14 10:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, tights feel good on, so why not. Although maybe it would eb good to tell her and becasue if she found out another way it could be horrible!
2006-08-14 21:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best that you tell her, she would definately be more shocked and upset if she found out of her own accord. Plus if you're in a relationship with this girl you need to be completely honest.
2006-08-14 11:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by TB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋