people at my skool the more popular ones and even my best friends if they r wit them then they hate me
2006-08-14 03:30:45 · 26 answers · asked by princessnikki246 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im going in to 8th grade and when my friends r just with me they are the best but when they r with more snotty kids they r totally differnt what should i do and give me good advice i mean i like them but not with other friends
2006-08-14 03:39:28 · update #1
Just remember, the popular kids are the kids that end up being the biggest losers.....
You will be their boss one day and when that day comes treat them like crap....make them eat it!
2006-08-14 03:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kids are mean and a few years out of high school none of it will matter. Most of these kids who picked on you and called you a looser will end up loosers themselves. I wasn't the most popular in HS, either, but I rose above it, served in the military, married, have 2 great kids, dont even see much of the kids i grew up with, but when i do run into them, they are much more humble than what they used to be. A few of the "high and mighty" back then, are divorced, 2 or 3 times, have a few kids by a few different men, don't have jobs, live on welfare,some of them have lost their good health, etc. It may seem like popularity is the only thing that matters right now, but in the end, it doesnt matter at all. HS don't last forever, be yourself, be kind hearted, study, get good grades and before you know it, it will be over and you'll be starting your life.
2006-08-14 03:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ones a loser!
You probably need to increase your confidence level. Do small tasks first and when you do it your confidence increases.
Increase the difficulty of the tasks that you do gradually and you will can do much more with better practice.
This should increase your skills too and you better try very hard.
Don't keep too much in the company of people who look down on you. Stay away from someone who demoralizes you just because then feel they are better. They are not better its just that they practiced harder before you did.
Nobodies a loser. You are still in high school and have your entire life in front of you. There is enough time to climb ladders too. Climb the rung one by one and see your confidence grow !
2006-08-14 03:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Bachelor boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to drop your friends and get some new ones because if your "friends" act like that, they are not true friends. You are not a loser, everyone is different and if they don't realize that than their missing out on being in the life of a great person!
2006-08-14 03:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to spell, write and speak like someone who will accomplish something in life and maybe you will be perceived to be a winner! Hang out with good kids and you will be perceived as a winner......
Do well in school, get good grades, become involved in your school's service clubs - help with a food and clothing drive - things like that will contribute to you being perceived as a "winner".
Speaking "ghetto thug" will only cause you to be perceived as a thug and and a loser.
2006-08-14 03:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the only reason any human being picks on another human being is to boost their own self esteem.
the next time someone makes you feel like a loser, the best thing to do is to make them realize that it doesnt matter to you what other people think.
if people at your school want to busy themselves by putting you down, then they obviously have nothing better to do with themselves.. i know its hard to be put down by others.
your best bet is to be the bigger person, kindly say thank you for pointing out your opinon about me being a loser, tell them it doesnt matter to you that they think that and walk away smiling.
2006-08-14 03:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by nicoles1504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends wouldn't hate on you. You need to find a different group of people who share the same interests as you. Not everyone is the same and some people find this hard to accept.
2006-08-14 03:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your friends do this to you then they are not your true friends. you shouldn't care what others think of you only what you think of yourself. the popular ones are probably too insecure about themselves so they get out from others. ignore them the more they think you are annoyed at them the more they will pick on you. stand up for yourself and make some friends who like you for who you are and make sure they don't get influcened by the popluar ones.
2006-08-14 03:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say if people talk more about you, you have something that they envy much that's they are trying to put you down. Don't let those things that theys says will affect unleast you know that you are doing good, go on. IF THEY KEEP ON DOING THIS THING TO YOU THEY ARE NOT YOUREAL FRIENDS, NO MATTER HOW LONG YOU'VE BEEN WITH.
2006-08-14 03:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by a comedian yet very sensous man. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the losers just focus on school work and make you some friends that except the way you are.
2006-08-14 03:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋