I realy want my ex back. We broke up 2 months ago and I know he is seeing someone else, but I still love him and think he has feelings for me, how can I get him back. He told me he misses me bout 2 weeks ago and now he's been a bit more distant. :-(
2006-08-14 03:26:28 · 19 answers · asked by unqione 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let destiny put you two back together. Whatever is to be will be, do not try to force the issue. I know you think I am being very unreasonable when I say this, but take it from my years of experience. Allow destiny to do the job, if it is to be it will be. And if it doesn't work out for you know that there are many other guys out there that are dying for a chance to be with you.
2006-08-14 03:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well who broke up with who?? Did you dump him? If so he might be hesitant to give you a second chance...
But if he dumped you and he said he misses you then you may have a chance. Have you seen him with his gf? If they are positivley happy do not try and break them up that is just pure evil! I would try to call him and tell him how you feel and that you love him and all the things you did wrong in your relationship. If he still says no dont be desperate( keep calling him).
Maybe try finding another guy. Go to some clubs maybe you will find someone else!
2006-08-14 10:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sam<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look i'm not a girl. But hey girl, life has to move on. What is happening is you have establised and open a soul tie with you ex. Especially if you have had intimacy. Physical ties is broken but the soul lives on. You need closure. Get an experienced pastor to pray for you and talk thing over. Sometimes things don't work out the way we want it but we become a better person out of it. Of course you do not want to hear this **** but its true.
Thats why there is a song "everytime you go away you take a piece of me with you". If its over its over. Get friends, sisters, cousins to help you get over it. Brave it up. face reality and next time dont just fall in love. i did not say don't be in love i said don't fall in love for in that way you will not fall out of it.
2006-08-14 10:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is tell him how you feel. If he seeing someone else, he might be happier with that relationship. You can't expect him to drop his new fling to go back to you. Telling you that he misses you and blah blah, he's probly just trying to keep you hanging on just in case his new thing don't work. I would find someone else. Chances are, if he cares about you, he'll get jealous, you'l have him eating out of the palm of your hand, begging you to take him back.
2006-08-14 10:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just call him up and explain how much he means to you. I use to be like that and I wrote him an email and told him how much he meant to me. The reason he might be distant is because maybe he is starting to like the other girl. If I was you I would hurry up and tell him how much you still care for him
2006-08-14 10:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by eclipseracer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you have to move on! It is hard but you can do it. If he loves you he will come back. You can try not to focus on getting him back. Make yourself a better, stronger person and if he sees the changes he may come back. If not, you may land someone better!
2006-08-14 10:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by Femme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, right now theres nothing you can really do if hes taken but dont worry you guys are young , its not like thier getting married or anything like that. If you truely love him you will wait then when the time is right , tell him how you feel!!!!
WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU LEMONDES YOU MAKE LEMONDADE
am i not right?!?!
2006-08-14 10:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by mary g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As usual, once broken, it's gone. Get a grip on your life and move on because he's gone. Don't chase on impossible dreams.
2006-08-14 10:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he said he misses u why didn't he call or smth????? he is either lyin about his feelings or is a really bigggggg egoist!!!! careful!!! there many guys who would want u 4 their girl, snap out of it, enjoy life!!!!!!
2006-08-14 10:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by maria32greece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him about ur feeling ,if really wants u back OK
but if he has diff rent feeling ,forget him ,go for ur life
2006-08-14 10:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by behnoush_k_1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋