Would you be a mistress?

Answer 1

No way in hell would I become some man's mistress.
When I sleep with a man it is out of love on both sides, it is with commitment, truth, honesty, loyalty. It is also with all the emotional and mental states of mind that go along with love.

I would never hurt another woman in that way either. To knowingly sleep with a married man.........That is just wrong.

and for a married man to expect a woman to be his mistress is just selfish on his part. When a man takes a mistress he loses all integrity. He becomes a liar, a cheat, an adulterer, he loses all morals.

Now why would any woman want to sleep with a man who has nothing to offer her? Once a man loses his integrity and his morals...........he has nothing to offer anyone.

Answer 2

In my younger more stupid years I was a mistress several times. The operative phrase here is "younger more stupid". When I look back on those various situations, I cringe. Again, I was emotionally so naive and so selfish that I can hardly bear to remember. It was not until later in my life that I was capable of considering the "wife" in each situation and when that day finally arrived (and thankfully, it did), I realized what a foolish little dope I had been. Sometimes, I ended up with a broken heart, sometimes not but I always was the loser. If only my integrity. All the other woman does is temporarily provide sex,companionship, and an unrealistic outlet for the cheater. Those circumstances were the worst in my life.

Answer 3

I was a mistress and I will never do it again. Even though I ended up with the man I still sometimes feel that I should be with him. I can't say that I would change anything that happened because it helped me become who I am today but I would never make the choice to do it again.

Answer 4

I probably could. There are many circumstances as to why a man would want to take a mistress. Yes, all the do gooders have morals and just feel for the wife. But you wives must stop and think at times "I have been a real biotch lately...I'm so lucky he hasn't filed for divorce".

Answer 5

This question is degrading. A female who would put themselves in to the position of being a mistress to any man says the woman has NO self esteem, No regard to the Man's wife, No regards to the family (his) that will suffer as a consequence. To top it all off a female who does this is also selfish, and self centered!!

Answer to this question is NO!!

Answer 6

I have been a mistress a few times in the past, however now that I am married, I do feel guilty about it.

Answer 7

NO !!!! My values and moral are very high !!! I love my ordained one & only husband { Paul Heinz } who God gave me in the first place to have my WHOLE lifetime .I won't ever compromise my set values & morals to follow whatever the crowd is doing. Marriage is what it is UNTIL DEATH. Hey being a mistress is living in adultery. Everyone of us has a responsibility to live right. You break God's law , it will break you ! There is no pillow so soft as a CLEAR conscience !!! Life is not consequences. LIFE IS DECISIONS !!!

Answer 8

No. That would be a tease because your with some one that belongs to some one already.By becoming his mistress you're just harboring feelings for some one who may never become yours. And in doing so your making yourself a victim for loving some one who may never fully love you.

Answer 9

I think in the right circumstances that it can be a relationship that works for a period of time. I did it once. Don't know if I would want to put myself in that position again.

As a side note-- I love all these 'outraged' people with their moral indignity-- I'm sure they have their own areas of their lives that others would view as immoral.

Answer 10

I was and didn't even know it. It was horrible. I was devastated. I think if I was given a choice as to whether I wanted to accept that role, then I would have made a decision I could live with consequences and all. Have great relationships along the way.