Usually when I'm on my cycle, and my bf and I can't have sex I please him. When I when to sleep and woke up in the middle of the night I noticed that his pants were on the floor and the DVD player was gone.
Okay we watch a lot of pornos TOGETHER
so what should I do about this situation
2006-08-14 03:03:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You shouldn't DO anything. If he is only relieving his pressures in front of a t.v. and not outside the home, I personally would keep complaints minimal. Besides its human nature for a man to do this, when the occassion presents itself, If you watch alot of porn together you should expect it to be watched without each other. Unless you are concerned about your relationship being in crisis over a video and absolutely MUST make an issue about it do it rationally and with out accusations. Do not be threatened by masturbation.
2006-08-14 03:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
So your guy masturbates when he can't have sex with you. So what? Just because he wants a little inspiration doesn't mean he cares for you any less -- especially if the two of you watch that stuff together. You don't have anything to worry about unless he takes the DVD player over to some other girl's place.
2006-08-14 03:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey at least he was only in the other room watching a porno and not out having "fun" with someone else! Take it easy on him.
2006-08-14 03:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What situation? At least he was still at home and taking care of his urges himself. If the issue is him watching the porn without you - talk to him about that - but, really, that is not the biggest problem you could have.
2006-08-14 03:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Topez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him do what he wants. Guys will pleasure themselves no matter how much sex they are getting. It's just a guy thing. Don't worry, he obviously didn't want you to know or he would have been doing it when he was in bed next to you. Not do some sneaky manuver so he wouldn't get in trouble
2006-08-14 03:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Resident_Psychic_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should it be one way? If he cant handle your lunar cycles, then he can wait. He sounds like a wuss. CAsll him to ask about it. Young people dont need pornos when theyre together.
2006-08-14 03:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd worry about a guy who runs off with the DVD player and ditches a fine woman!!! He sounds very self-centered!
Get yourself a BF who really cares more about you than himself and getting his rocks off!
2006-08-14 03:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to sleep. It's not a big deal. He's a free man in a free country, he felt like watching some porn and didn't want to interrupt your peaceful sleep.
2006-08-14 03:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why but when my partner is on her cycle I get hornier and the more she pleases me the more I want...your bf is trying not to be so demanding, it's considerate that you make such compromises but he is being equally considerate by not being over demanding...it has nothing to do with loving you any less...try and be understanding.
2006-08-14 03:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him be sometimes a man needs to be pleased more than once. Just relax, b/c sometimes when a woman is on her cycle, to a man thats forever. Just be glad it's himself and not someone else.
2006-08-14 03:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by littlecloieinttown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋