We don't have a big circle of friends. She even dreams of this. But I want to be careful who we choose. She even mentioned doing a "practice" threesome, then a "real" threesome. I guess because the first time we'll be nervous. Any suggesstions or comments?
2006-08-14 02:46:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have had this discussion with my husband and here is what we came up with...We wouldn't want it to be a friend because that would make things awkward afterward. We decided it would be in a hotel that we would pay for so that the person would not know where we live or how to contact us afterwards and cause problems. We would use protection since we don't know this person well enough to go without. I hope this helps.
2006-08-14 02:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by stall_out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship you two have. If you have a strong one you can find a close friend or a stranger. But if your relationship is weak you must find someone you don't know to save your relationship. Sometimes just cause the woman says she wants it doesn't mean she'll like it. Please if you must do this dream make sure to discuss all the things that are going to be done or possible things that can happen. It sometimes feels like reality. Just be sure and discuss the situation before it happens believe me I've had my share of games more than once.
2006-08-14 03:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by littlecloieinttown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The idea of a threesome is always exciting and something a lot of couples consider trying. MY suggestion would be not to do it at all. I know it seems like something she wants to do and in her mind may be her ultimate fantasy, but in reality is almost always has a negative impact on the relationship. Please, reconsider or perhaps try something else in order to spice things up in the bedroom.
2006-08-14 02:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A threesome could be a dream come true or it could become your worst nightmare. It could ruin your good marriage. Sometimes keeping things a "dream" is better than making them a reality.
2006-08-14 02:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by mothertime2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure SHE dreams of this or is it you not leaving her alone until she has finally submitted. I caution you - if she is the one dreaming of this - you may be left alone in the dust wondering what happened when she leaves you for another woman.
Suggestion: Why should you even be married? You obviously can't satisfy each other sexually if you have to bring someone else into the relationship - this is the beggining of your marriage's collapse. If you want to save it - stop dillying around in this area.
2006-08-14 03:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Forgiven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, let me tell you, if you all are going to do this, let her pick the person, trust me, this will keep down alot of arguments and jealousy in the end. she will feel better about someone that she trust rather than you, simply because she wants this, but she still wants you to look at her as the woman you love, so be careful and patient, let her do the work, you enjoy it better with someone who she is more comfortable with.
2006-08-14 02:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by Knuckles06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with doing it on vacation. What if the woman gets the hots for you? Or worse yet, what if your wife gets the hots for her? Do it far from home so there will be no running into that person!
2006-08-14 02:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out meet different woman, get to know other people and then bring it up with them. or just use one of ur other friends
i have this problem too except my man want let me bring a woman home
2006-08-14 02:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by geminiblue26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are things that can happen that you probably haven't thought about. Hurt feeling, jealousy, and insecurity are common. I would be very careful before sharing a spouce sexually.
2006-08-14 02:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it on vacation that way the likelihood of running into that perosn again is slim to none. And use protection!
2006-08-14 02:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋