he lies about where he goes, he keeps his cell phone hostage, spends his whole paycheck and doesnt spent it on his daughter, hes been treating me like im not here, Im sooo confused I love him so much. I know what he is doing is wrong but i need to know if there is anyway to fix this. I dont want to lose him ive know him for too long I would not be able to live without him.please somebody give me some advice on what to do PLEASE
2006-08-14 02:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by mom w/2kids 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hire a PI and you will know the truth. The truth will make you want to leave him.
2006-08-14 05:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say it but it sounds like he is cheating. If it was about having freind time that would give him no reason to hide his cell phone or lie about where hes going. It may be hard but ask yourself if it is better to be with a cheater who isnt paying your feelings no mind or to lose a friend that obvisously doesnt value your friendship let alone relationship nearly as much as you do. Take a moment no matter how hard it is to be truthful with yourself and make a list of benifits and downfalls about the situation and help yourself decide what weighs out to be better alone and moving on to better or caught up,confesed and lonely
2006-08-14 10:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by debbie_ding05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex bf did the same thing, I put up with it for awhile because i loved him so much. you can live without him it will hurt for a long time but you will get over him. it took me a year but thats because we remained friends and when we talked on the phone he would always say i love you. but would still lie,say he's comming over or call and don't.you deserve to be treated better than that, there is a million other guys out there , but I didn't want any one else either. just move on he's not going to change
2006-08-14 09:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question for you-- how long are you going to be able to put up with this crap once you're married to the guy? Do yourself a favor. Tell him you can't marry him if it's going to be like this. Tell him that if he has some secret, he'd better confess and be more open to you or you're going to go looking for a new fiance! Maybe he'll realize the error of his ways and let you in. If not, you'll end up like my mom-- married for 37 miserable years of nothing but fighting, aggaravation, secrets, and worry. Be smart.
2006-08-14 09:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices 1) put up with this cheater and become nothing more than a booty call; or 2) boot this ******** to the street and find someone who will respect you.
2006-08-14 09:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to hit the road. Find someone who will share with you. This guy knows he has you. You are being played .
2006-08-14 09:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by john d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have to agree that all the signs are there that he is seeing another woman. You need to ask the question of him?
2006-08-14 09:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres something you dont want to hear.... he has another woman and you need to leave him
2006-08-14 09:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by wilfreds805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you. I would start a fire.
2006-08-14 09:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋