I am 19 years old and I recently found out about a boy who likes me, and I've begun to like him too, BUT he is 16 years old...is this wrong? I feel so bad because he is such a nice boy, but I dont know if it's right. I just want to know what other people think I should do about this situation...Thanks in advance. :)
2006-08-14 02:21:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know that if we were older, I definitely wouldnt question it at all, but considering the fact that we're teenagers, that's what makes it so difficult for me to decide what to do...
2006-08-14 02:32:40 · update #1
It's illegal, and his parents could press charges on you at any time for any reason. You would really be sticking your neck out there. Keep it as platonic until he's older. If he's this great at 16 then all the better later on - plus ya'll will have a different type of relationship already established - plus a great beginning relationship story to tell your kids. Wouldn't 'we waited for love' be better than 'mommy was is prison for 5 years....because she was stupid and ruled by her hormones'?
2006-08-14 06:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Applecore782 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering that girls mature alot much faster than guys and you are 19, the 16yr old boy must be very matured. next yr you are 20 he is 17. 2 yrs time you will be 21 he is 18. you are 22 he 19. you 23 he 20.
Why are you attracted to him ? pray for clarity. Dnt make any rash decision. What you thinking ? Marriage ? If not whats the point ? Friends ? sure. BF/GF ? Get real.
Talk and get feedback from sister, friend or anyone you can trust .
2006-08-14 11:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of strange.. but my 16 y/o brother could pass for an 18 y/o.. so I 'm guessing your young friend looks older than he really is.. anyways... whatever you decide to do remember this.. he is a minor and if you get caught having sex with him you could go to jail for a VERY Long time......
2006-08-14 09:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently dated a guy who was 19 and I'm 16! It was good while it lasted it and I'm sure it can work in reverse!
You're only breaking the law if you have sex with this guy!
2006-08-14 09:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there will a problem. Let him complete his study and get some good job for financially sound for better future,
2006-08-14 09:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by TG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ei... age gap is no longer a barrier anymore... its normal ler..
Just try it out. who noes, it might work. might be the best soulmate u've ever met. but never confuse fondness to love...
Unless u noe it is growing into sumtin...
2006-08-14 09:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by SxyDeViL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong. Age only matters if you cross the line into sex.
2006-08-14 09:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by mixershaun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were 43 and he was 40..would you even ask this question,what you should ask is,is it legal.that's what you need to find out,and laws vary per state.
2006-08-14 09:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ron H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...he is too young right now. be friends until he is 18///then you can have him as your bf and not go to jail
2006-08-14 09:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but i just don't see the problem here .
2006-08-14 09:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by qbalka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋