2006-08-14 02:09:40 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marry me.....
2006-08-14 02:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know if your question is concerning a current relationship that you have or if it is a general question but here is my answer!
Up to a year ago I always said to myself that I do not wish to get married! Why sleep every night with the same aging woman when you can go out with different women every day? Why have children when the only thing you get from them is headaches, expenses and some sleepless nights! Why get commited to a mortgage and monthly expesnses? I even noticed that good friends of mine that got married, barely had time to see us singles!
Marriage has its disadvantages, but something that happeend a year ago made me change my mind!
I met a very wealthy man from the US, which his uncle who lives in a different country - 87year old single Art collector without a family but with a very hefty estate, was getting old and wary and his so called friends were robbing him! The nephew was asking me to help his uncle and I did but this showed me that when you get old, you need a family that will take care of you, and especially your children! This old man was a millionaire but his so called friends (at least several of them) were taking advantage of him and making his life (at least what was left of it) miserable! If he had children, this probably wouldn't have happened!
I am not saying that you should get married at any cost, but only if you find that special one that you will find that she could be your only one, a great lover, and a good friend and companion!
I wish you luck with your decision, I made mine! (I'm still single but in a few years, when I'll feel ready for a commitment and will find the right one I will go for it!)
2006-08-14 02:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should not!! Think of this open mindedly.
I have a business deal for you. It could lead to happiness, longevity, and a feeling of life completion. There are a few bumps that I must tell you though. This deal has been tried many times before, and usally has a 70% failure rate. In the event that it does fail you will go through a ton of pain. Also there's a good chance that you will owe money for the rest of your life if it does fail. You need to put all your possesions on the line and I need approximately $40000 to start this business. Can you help me out?
2006-08-14 02:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mike S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I convince you to marry and you are not - that leads to tragedy.
If I convince you not to marry when you are ready - you miss your opportunity with a great partner.
Marriage is not for others to convince you and happiness is in your hands and you have to work on it. For better or for worse, it takes two to clap.
2006-08-14 02:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need that much convincing from the yahoo!ANswers group I don't think you are prepared for marriage anyways. I would like for you to analyze your life and see the rpos and cons of marrying whoever it is you are about to marry. Think about the future and what it holds for both of you. If economically, emotionally, and mentally your ready, then get married. But if any one of these three things you believe yourself to be lacking then hault!!! Don't do it, don't cause greif and a bitter divorce to anyone!!!
2006-08-14 02:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear it is not only you but any human being male or female has to get married some day or other , however don't take it as a physical requirement only but a support for life time , No money or relations can stay till the end but your better half will always be with you . So dear now its up to you how you accept it. take care
2006-08-14 03:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by alok_bpo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, no can do. The decision to marry is yours and yours alone. But I will say that if you need convincing, then you shouldn't even be considering marriage.
2006-08-14 02:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u wanna get convinced ur self that u should have a family by marrying then simply visualised yourself in ur late ages...when you'll be old boring and will be in need of someone who will not only do your laundry but will make you happy by recalling the life that you spended in ur good time......remember when there is the best time for an opportunity then there in no opportunity!
2006-08-14 02:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by pikus_zeech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to get married some day
2006-08-14 02:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not get married.
No offense meant but your question made your views of matrimony immature therefore,unprepared and not ready.
Imagine how will it be for everybody having to convince yourself each and every time an issue arises in your married life?
Think more than twice before you commit yourself for life,k?Good luck.
2006-08-14 02:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will make this very simple for you. If you have any doubts in your mind about the fact if you should get married or not, the answer to your question is YOU SHOULD NOT GET MARRIED! It is just the simple. You do not want to do anything, especially if it is something as big as this. So, When in doubt, do not do it.
2006-08-14 02:16:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋