Last night when I was checking my e-mail I saw on my boyfriends history on his computer some websites, is this normal, should I be concerned, should I confront him, I just want some advice on how I should handle this?
2006-08-14 02:04:36 · 24 answers · asked by lacie_j_1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well...if it bothers you...you might offer him some options...my husband finds it very hard to surf the net while tied to our bed :)
2006-08-16 09:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rainy Day 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is normal for guys (even some girls) to watch porn. as long as the person is above 18 it's perfectly legal. if u want to talk about it with your boyfriend asking how often he looks at it would be an idea. if he watches it everyday (without fail) there might be a chance that he's addicted to it and that can be problematic. also it depends on what kind of porn he watches, as long as it's not illegal stuff then no problem.
2006-08-14 09:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by sugar_lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite normal with males as well as females too. it doesn't make it right, but it happens all the time. If you don't like that your boyfriend is doing this then confromt him about it and let him know that it bothers you. It all boils down to what makes you feel comfortable, and if you have a problem or not with this. Talk to him and tell him how you feel.
2006-08-14 09:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's common for men to look at porn. I personally think it's because they have too much time on their hands and need something new to get involved with.
My boyfriend does it too but I have stopped snooping. He knows not to interact with any "live" webcams or porn dating sites. As I have already confronted him about porn many times, he would just look at it more. When I finally gave in, he don't look at it as much now.
If it's interfering with your time with him, try introducing him to a new activity. He's probably just board.
I got mine hooked on eBay.
2006-08-14 09:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-08-14 10:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaa ya guys do it all the time, and if they say they dont 9 out of 10 they r lieing, its not a big deal u have your fantasys and so does he it is human nature, and besides its not like he cheated on you, i wouldnt worrie about it unless u start finding some really sick stuff like animals or kids than i would take action
2006-08-14 09:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by armorefelix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men like some level of porn. The few who don't aren't interested in sex.
2006-08-14 09:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i recon you were visiting the porn sites on his comp and not ya email like you say you were... but to ans ya question i recon it is very normal... something wrong if a bloke owns a comp and has Internet if he don't visit porn...you should join him one night, ya never know ya might both learn something new and enjoyable...
2006-08-14 09:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes,its but what you should do is try wearing something more sexy around the house ,lastly try something different in bed and it wouldnt hurt to wacth it with him from to time you might learn something new ,if not it will surely get you to in the mood and it will work out for the both of you let me know how things go,good luck its in your favor.
2006-08-14 09:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes\
2006-08-14 09:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by hotty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but not all day and night, It get's old. and nothing is better than having af female in your life that loves you and wants to be with you
2006-08-14 09:08:07 · answer #11 · answered by jeremiah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋