2006-08-14 01:52:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe in fate. Here is a story for example. When I was 14 and in 8th grade, I wanted to be a nurse. I had applied to a high school that had a great science program and allowed students to take courses at college for credit in both schools. Somehow my guidance counselor lost my application to the school and I was forced into another high school. I didn't want to be there, and I was miserable. I was seperated from my friends, and the school I had to go to had a piss poor science program.
Freshman year, I met a boy and had a crush on him. He was tall, cute and funny. We would talk on the phone a lot. We became best friends, but he was so busy looking for the cheerleader, that he didn't think of me that way. (I'm pretty, and nicely built, he just wanted to go with a cheerleader) Anyway, he screwed up and got kicked out of my school and had to move to the country with his aunt.
Years passed, I moved on and had boyfriends. Was engaged twice. Lived with a guy for a few years. Then we broke up. I heard from the guy from high school, we started going out. Now we've been married almost 10 years. We have three beautiful children.
If we had gotten together back then, we wouldn't be together now, and our children wouldn't be here. He was too superfical at the time, and was not mature enough for a relationship. We would have been fleeting. Since we didn't get together until our 20's, we've lasted.
So yes, fate exists.
2006-08-14 02:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I believe in fate, I don't believe that there is one person for everyone.
I believe that there are many people that have different levels of compatibility for everyone, but some are more compatible than others.
I think it's foolish to spend your life walking away from great relationships in search of the perfect one. I mean... while there MAY be the perfect person for you out there, there are close to 7 Billion People in the world...
2006-08-14 08:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Village Idiot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I totally believe in fate. About 10 years ago I met my now husband but broke his heart back then. We lost touch and didn't meet back up till about 4 years ago. At our engagement party his grandmother was coming up the walk and my aunt said she knew her. Then my mom was talking to her and found out that they used to work at the same hospital. Ok. Small world. Well, not only did they work at the same hospital but when my mom delivered my sister, my husbands grandmother was her delivery nurse. i thought that was so cool. and my husbands name is Austen and the night we got back together or as I say the night I found him, I was going to see Austin Powers at the movies and it was sold out, I ran into an old friend who had his number and since then we've gotten married and have a son.
2006-08-14 09:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't, and here's why...
I spent eight years with one girl who was, at the time, my perfect match. We shared all of our interests, our stengths and weaknesses complimented each other... and while it was good, it was perfect. But then our interests and desires split. She wanted to settle down, and I'm not the domestic type... I wanted to see the world, so to speak. It happened very quickly and we realized that while what we'd had was as good as could be, it couldn't go on.
A lonely time later, I was quite literally travelling the world, and somehow I met someone who, quite different from my first love, fulfilled everything I needed in a lover and a partner at that stage of my life. It was a very different relationship, but no less a case of "soul mates", if such a thing exists.
That relationship also ended. Not badly, but simply due to change. I'm engaged now to my third love. It's true you never forget your first, but I would never have thought of marrying my fiance if our connection was any less than I'd had before.
This series of experiences has taught me two things:
1, people change and as they change the people they need in their lives change also.
2, it is possible to love more than one person. If you find the right people, then it is possible to have many loves in your life. Or, if you find the right person, it is possible to have just one love.
But that one person, somewhere in the world is destined for you, like half of a locket? No, the world is filled with too many interesting, wonderful and loving people for the odds of love to be so slim as that.
2006-08-14 09:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by barnett811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in fate - good & bad. Not every1 is destined 2 belong 2 the one they love altho their paths have crossed.
2006-08-14 12:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by wotagem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in fate. I also believe every person has his/her half. But don't always find it.
2006-08-14 08:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by can2gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in fate and there is one person meant for everyone.Just be patient and it will come in due time.
2006-08-14 08:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by Apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe in fate i think it was fate that me and my man met online and he ended up moving here so it does happen
2006-08-14 09:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by spoyledmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in fate,and i also believe that all of us have 'unrevealed' partner,and this specific person will come in your life when the times come.
2006-08-14 09:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by rufusclip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there is one person for everyone. It is not designed where a specific person is your soulmate but rather that you make the person you're with into your soulmate. In that regard, they will be meant for you.
2006-08-14 08:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋