i have known this girl for abt12 years now, then we lost contact for about 6 yrs. then one day, i sent her a mail to her school that i really love her and that i miss her. then 3 days later i saw her she called me and we greeted, for the past six years we hardly utter words to one another, if we ever come in contact. later i visited her in her school. she asked me why i hardly talk to her before now. i tried to explain things to her and she said ok that we can be frends. i visited her again in a weeks time, she sent her friend to tell that i should drop any message to her through her classmates. she later called me and said she dont like the way i visit her at her school. i later send her a card and some gift which she rejected without giving reason. she later told after something like a year that we are just friends because of old time sake, that her mind tells her that i will play with her and hurt her.she always say she know i have other gf. can someone tell me why? did she love me
2006-08-14 01:51:01 · 10 answers · asked by newlover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Please just leave her alone. She sounds like she doesn't want anything to do with you but is trying to be nice about it. It is best to say you are sorry and drop it.
2006-08-14 01:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dominika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but no she does not love you and never has. You just happen to have seen this girl around over the years - she's not a friend, not a girlfriend and not your future. Sounds to me as if she has been trying to get away for several years so leave her alone and go and find someone who would like to accept your gifts and cards.
2006-08-14 09:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by geegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its impossible for me pass 6 hrs without my GF & u both meet after 6 yrs... Its Not Love >>>.
Leave her alone
If you Love Her Jump from a 10 feet higher place at very had Surface after closing your Eyes if you love her she will be in ur eyes otherwise u will feel afraid.
Lover is ready to anything really anything.. Lover is like a Drunk man.
2006-08-14 09:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Beware_I'm_Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dear, she just is not into you. Let go of it and move on. Find someone who enjoys having you around, because that girl does not. You deserve to find someone who likes you. [There's a clue: if you each LIKE each other, the relationship will progress by itself without too much work!]
2006-08-14 08:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cloud9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she didn't love you then and doesn't love you now. She's happy enough to be friends with you - She also thinks you're being too pushy by writing to her and visiting her at school.
Leave her alone, find another woman and get on with your life!
2006-08-14 08:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you wrote out that question, it seems to me, that you want to go back to school, and learn how to put sentences together, then maybe the person you are talking about, will understand you.
2006-08-17 11:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by amrhappy1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have become "stalker material." Maybe you should back off and make a new "friend" before she slaps a restraining order on you.
2006-08-18 02:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by marcia_mahoya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on,people change you must be young & still have a lot to learn.You will find a proper girlfriend.Goodluck
2006-08-14 08:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. Something in your behavior has turned her off.
2006-08-14 08:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Baxter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think so
2006-08-18 08:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by juicylucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋