I've been having this discussion with a gay friend of mine.I believe you turn gay,you are who you are becouse society and your parents makes you who you are.
2006-08-14 01:41:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
It's a choice you make. There are some factors that contribute to a person's makeup to predispose them to choosing to be gay. Environment; molestation;and experimentation, just to name a few. No one is born gay, so the popular notion goes. It's just an excuse to live that life style when a person says they can't help it they were born like that. It's acceptable in society in some cases to live that lifestyle. But biblically it's not.
Where you born a bum? rocket scientist? actress? president? politician? Get my point! Being gay is an acquired lifestyle and has nothing to do with genes.
2006-08-14 02:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by December Princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Born. Do you really think that people wake up one morning, roll over and say, "Gee. Today I think I'd like to join one of the most hated and ostracized groups in the world, and lose my basic human rights. I think I'll be gay."
No. It doesn't happen. People are born the way they are born, end of story. There are families who are so Christian its sick, raise their kids up "right" and yet one (or more) of them discovers they are gay. You think those parents TAUGHT them that.
Get real. You should not debate on a subject you obviously know nothing about. I'm surprised your "gay friend" even speaks to you.
2006-08-14 03:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by The Bell Jar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you care how you become gay? The point is your gay and it doesn't matter how you become gay. And you will never understand because you are not gay so listen to your friend I think he can speak a little more intelligently about it than you can.
2006-08-14 01:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not born gay, but many children forget the influences they had when they was young and think they was born gay. Do you remember all influences or things you did or had happen to you as a child? Children do not choose.
2006-08-14 08:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am normal i also try to look for the answer and i got it see in china there were a big population before and still know the problem is there are more man instead of wqomen so when the man needs it they turn gay
2006-08-14 01:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by safraz.bhimani 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could be both. Most of the time you turn gay I think.
2006-08-14 01:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that people are born gay. I think that they are just drawn to the same sex after they are exposed to certain changes in their harmones.
2006-08-14 01:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is a choice. Not by birth.
2006-08-14 02:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn
2006-08-14 01:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋