difficult to find girls do you think there are only a few handsome guys in this world --- no rude answer pls or i will ****** u out in here okay thanks
2006-08-14 01:41:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Confidence! not over-confidence though. Practice easy chatting with your female friends, get used to being easy in female company. Best of all is to relax and be yourself.
2006-08-14 01:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by camshy0078 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that all the above are to some extent true, however my experience does not bear out the usual theories.
It seems to me that some of us, even if we're attractive, attentive, and confident ,and more focused on character than appearances ,can still find ourselves 'on the shelf'.
And at the same time ,we can see people of all sorts just falling into relationships, be they plain, shy, shallow, or vain (in fact ,it looks like shallowness and vanity help as far as brief liaisons go !)
Now after many years ,(including the odd nibble here and there ) I feel that for some of us it just goes that way. In my case ,although I find women gorgeous, and am as randy as the next guy, I don't really need another person as a constant companion. Also ,for most of my adult life ,I deliberately avoided relationships ,to focus on 'more profound' matters, and it seems those patterns are hard to change.
So ,maybe ,you think that you ought to have a woman, or regular sexual liaisons (and of course ,would like them ), but there are other values ,beliefs or preferences that take you in another direction.
2006-08-14 11:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by GreatEnlightened One 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have it wrong!
Instead of being interested in a girl who just likes you for the way you look you should be interested in ones who care More about how you treat them!
For me I don't chose who I should date based upon what they look like, or what they drive, how much money they make!
I look for the thing that matters the most how they make me feel!
And I am a very pretty girl! I can have any guy I want!
Just hold out for a while you'll meet the right person!
2006-08-14 10:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being handsome and humourous helps as it gives you a head start in the confidence stakes.Most women go for that sort of guy.I know we will go on about whats inside but we don't really believe that too much.Women hate "wet" guys who are drippy and clingy.Beauty is skin deep,but unfortunately some peoples skin is deeper than others...
2006-08-15 05:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by rab333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing to do when attracted to someone, is to talk to them. You'd be amazed how many guys will whine and complain about having no female companions, but never actually try talking to a girl.
The easiest way to end up with pretty girls is to become friends with thier friends.
2006-08-14 10:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by lenny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is called 'Attraction Marketing' and has been around since the begining of time. The same thing is true for those of us that market online but most don't realize it.
It all comes down to trying too hard on your schedule, not theirs.
If you set up the right 'vibes' they will be calling you and I don't mean just because of good looks.
2006-08-14 08:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U Don't Get A 2nd Chance 2 Make Ur 1st Impression!!....confidence and honesty....and just kipin it real!!...By the way, Beauty is only skin deep!...develop ur inner beauty, the real beautiful girls will see that n kip u close 2 their hearts!! Goodluck ;-)
2006-08-14 11:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Garden Isle Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im very attractive,my man is no oil painting.Personality is paramount,a sense of humour and fun.He has the whole package apart from the looks.If you treat a woman with complete respect,trust her then you will live happily ever after.There are lots of handsome men,but then they dont seem to have a personality.
2006-08-14 08:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lie, lie, lie. Make them cry, cry, cry. They'll love you until they die lol.
Nah... Just kidding.
I myself had troubles having a girlfriend than my best friends when we were in highschool... because I was a chicken. Until I learned from one of my friend's GF that patience, attention, and demonstrating the real you counts the most. Confidence, too -- gee, I just realized that's what I didn't have compared to my highschool mates then. lol...
2006-08-14 09:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend in my previous college.....
Believe me he was a complete jerk and an total A S Shole.....but girls found him better than others just because of his tremendous confidence......
His face was no extraordinary......his dressing and hair style sucked.
I'm telling the truth.
Most of the time he acted stupidly but he had that confidence of his.
2006-08-14 09:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Moy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋