she is my friend but not a close one but she is a best friend of my close friend as well.I feel they both discuss about me and my husband.what should i do?
2006-08-14 01:32:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-08-14 01:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would be crazy for you to keep on going to places where this lady is..Secondly,if she is the friend of your best friand try to monitor their behaviour towrds you..dont just jump into conclusions you could lose your bestfriend for that.as for this lady,she sounds to be very ***** Keep a close eye on her.On the other hand i would say,if you married this man,there is a reason you did i believe in a marriage there should be trust and if you trust your husband and everything is going on well in your marriage..theres nothing to worry about.unless of course your husband is accepting the sexy looks from this lady then,its time to get nasty and real darling...thats when you should forget about frienship coz you wont be the first person whos man has been snatched by a best friend in this situation kindly but very directly tell your friend that the men shes looking at is taken.if she doesnt change and your man is still like a dog..its gonna be high time you reconsider your marriage.i hope that it hasnt reached to this point though...
2006-08-14 08:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by kapatikana 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you can inform both of your friends in an indirect way that you know what they are doing even if it has to be at first in the form of a joke or a comment its up to you and after few days or couple of weeks you can ask them questions(e.g i've noticed lately that you and your friend have been discussing ....so is that true?) which is more likely to put both of you in a stressful situation as you'll friendship might be affected but i think your husband is more important to you. if you found out that they are discussing about you and your husband you should breakup your friendship with that lady because friends should always work with you and be there for you but never against you
2006-08-14 08:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry about it unless your husband seems to be interested. Some women are totally evil, and if you worried about every woman who stared at your husband and tried to get his attention, you would waste a lot of time worrying.
So long as you love and trust your husband I wouldn't do anything.
As for the other part (you think she and another closer friend talk about you) it may be true.
Sometimes our gut feelings are right on.
If they are talking about you, there is nothing you can do about it, and honestly you shouldn't care. People talk, and it's not worth worrying about. The only thing is, stop telling both ladies any personal information about you and your husband. You don't want to feed their conversations any more than you have to.
2006-08-14 08:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, nothing to worry about Heena... first consider urself lucky tht u have such a wonderful hubby who is a interest of others girls n ladies:):)
Well, nothing to worry and nothing to hesitate.... if u feel the way and think it's wrong... jus talk to tht lady directly.... it is the best way to solve the problems.... and even don't discuss it wid ur best frnd either. If the lady is understanding, she will got it and stop doing the act, but if she keeps doing it.... thn handle her in other way..;)
now don't ask me wht other way.... come on dear, one can do anything to remove the obstructions coming into the married life by any hook or crook!!
2006-08-14 09:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by kaps 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Heena, Unfortunately this question arises a very important aspect of you.."That you don't trust your husband"
Instead of discussing with your friend or that lady. Try and talk to your husband... I am sure he will avoid both of them in future..
This way you will save your face between your friends and your hubby will be "safe" too
2006-08-14 08:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try and do something to attract your husband as well. Don't nag or scream, it's not his fault [from what you're saying]. Just be pleasant, your friend seems to be jealous of your relationship with your husband. Step by step pull yourself away from those so-called 'friends'.
2006-08-14 08:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by can2gone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all make very less contact with that friend and secondly provide ur husband the things he need i mean u should maintain ur self in such a way that he should not feel any need to go to any other women . just love him a lot
2006-08-14 08:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Supriya K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first off, I wouldn't even consider her a friend. I would confront her on this matter and ask her what her problem is. Tell her to stay out of your marital affairs!! Good luck!
2006-08-14 08:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NEVER again let her near you(nor your husband).And as for your close friend,start avoiding her,cause If she is discussing your marriage she is not your friend.
2006-08-14 08:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by sanja77 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hold your head high with pride!! He must be handsome and nice.
I wouldn't worry about it. especially if you know your husband and that you can trust him. Have faith in him. He is with you so trust in that.
Just ignore her, if that don't work and she begins to get out of respect for you and your husband , Then it is all in the hands you have to set her straight! good luck sweetie
2006-08-14 08:48:32 · answer #11 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋