2006-08-14 01:24:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Trivia
Hey Ralph,
I don't know much about you other than you really like female singers without much talent... :-p (sorry, I had to "ding" you for your J/Lo obsession).
How about being yourself. You can't make your parents happy, and they, obviously, can't make you happy either.
How about; make them proud! They make you proud, don't they? Have you ever told them how proud you are of them?
How about, Love them! You Love them, don't you? Have you ever told them you love them? And No! I don't mean in a card! I mean, just out of the blue, turn to your mom or your dad and say, you know what... I LOVE YOU!
How about not being so self-centered about being Gay! I am Gay, I never made it an issue. I was probably lucky. Just one day, We (my B/F & I) broke up and my Mom said, what happened. I said, I don't know, but I really love him! It was understood! Pain is Pain! It didn't have a sexuality. Love is Love! It doesn't have a sexuality either.
Maybe if you understand that You can only be You and that Love can only be Love and that your parents can only be parents then everything might just fall into perspective and you all will be happy!
I wish you luck and peace!
James in San Diego
2006-08-16 23:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by jpr_sd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry about yourself.. A parent who loves you Will always be happy with you no matter what. Life is full of ups and downs. They need to learn to cope and deal. They wil not be happy until they allow themselves to be happy. Don't, please don't make yourself sad with their unhappiness! They will eventually come around.
2006-08-14 08:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by sabbycat76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents will come around to your lifestyle. My friend said his mom took awhile to come around. In the end they talked about it and He is MUCH happier. Tell your mom you are you no one can make you be someone else you can either fake being happy or actually be happy and faking being happy is no fun so tell your mom like it is and then she will come around.
2006-08-14 08:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by April J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent I find that having my kids being able to talk to me makes me the happiest
2006-08-14 08:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, your parents are in charge of making themselves happy.
2006-08-14 08:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Michael S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Debb, spend time with your parents, even if its just a meal together. If you are working, maybe you can consider bringing them out for a meal.
2006-08-14 08:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by carebears0408 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said your sad......
Spend some time with them, go play monopoly or cards. family dinner.
If you think you are doing" bad things" that dissapoint them , then shape up.
Go have a chat with them.
2006-08-14 12:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fake your own happiness. Heck, it might even make you HAPPY if you tried it.
2006-08-14 08:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise them with something like dinner...and try to bond with them...who knows, you might find happiness when you spend time with your parents...
2006-08-14 08:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by akasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply listen to them and never trouble them
2006-08-16 02:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by NANI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋