do you want to have a sex with someone right now or do you want to wait? if you are going out with this guy like a year.
I want to wait first and find my tust
2006-08-14 01:18:29 · 19 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
hi.
well i think that u should wait.ur dicision is absolutely right.
bye and have a nice day.
2006-08-14 01:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex after marriage.
I'd think that a guy willing to wait that long instead of doing me before the arrival of marriage is showing that he truely loves me, that he is willing to become commited to me before taking something precious away from me by marrying me and promising that he'd be by my side till death comes.
it also shows that both of us take somthing like sex serious enough to be willing to wait until we are married to do it.
having sex before marriage is okay if you really like each other, but it is dangerous as you are putting sex before commitment (marriage) and it also means that one of you can easily walk out of the relationship if you feel like it, which... sometimes one of the party end up getting hurt and feeling used.
if you put marriage before sex, then you'd think commitment is a big thing,... and most people would consider things more indepth and carefully before popping the question.
If you are a sex after marriage person... its a chance to test their love for you.
If they really love you... they are not afraid of commitment and will wait.
if they just wanna have fun with you without strings attached... then they'd go looking else where.
everyone is different and want different things out of life.
Just know what you want instead of what others want.
2006-08-14 01:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally, it is advised to have sex until you've married your chosen partner. I think most religions are still against fornication.
However, due to the drop in morality, over awareness in sexuality and of course, the liberated manner of thinking, sex became a means of expression of one's affection for another person, whether they are married or not.
Keep in mind that not all people who sleep with their partners before getting married are promiscuous or low-lifes. Sex is an option and you are free to choose and decide what's best for you.
Good luck.
2006-08-14 02:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jinky Winky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suppose you mean get married, yeah? tho i assure you having sex will get you vere merry... ;-P anyway, that's something only you can decide. i'd say sex when it feels right. don't let anyone pressure you into it, don't let anyone pressure you not to do it either. when you are with someone you love you'll feel when the moment has come to take things that step further, married or not.
2006-08-14 01:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by nerdyhermione 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Merry? do you mean after liquor?
If you are waiting for "marriage" then I support your decision.
2006-08-14 01:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course wait until u marry
it is too better and it is the right way
2006-08-14 01:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by lola25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're married.
2006-08-14 01:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by Say It Like You Mean It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just wait untill u marry..marriage is very speical,and ur firdt sex is also special with ur love and husband..
2006-08-14 01:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bible says sex out of wedlock is wrong, i dont know if you believe in God or not, that is the way its suppoesed to be done though.
2006-08-14 01:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex would make you merry, does me :)
2006-08-14 01:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Adele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋