if you married someone you dont love in an arranged marriage why do you become furriouse if you see him/her flirting or inimate wih someone else?
2006-08-14 01:04:52 · 4 answers · asked by Omar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because to do it shows lack of respect,,,i assume she knew she was getting married and knew this behaviour would be inappropriate,,it is hurtful to you and your family who,i suspect thought she would be a good wife,,arranged marriages i personally dont agree with but i am not of your culture but i also assume she is from the same culture as you and appreciates this does look very bad on you and your family.mybe if you tried very hard to treat her as you wish to be treated things may improve between you,,give and take,it may not seem worth it if you feel no love but if you want to make it better you must talk to her as a wife,not someone who you just married.
2006-08-14 01:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it bruises your ego.
But she could be trying to get your attention. Or trying to see what you feel about her. Or she could be upset about the situation.
You must remember that she married you in the same way (arranged)
Have the two of you sat down and had a long heart to heart talk about both of your feelings? I would suggest you do that, soon, and often!
Marriage is hard work, an arranged marriage would be much more difficult.
2006-08-14 09:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by vvxxzzvv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the couple is supposed to be loyal to each other. It is disrespectful to do that kind of thing in front of you partner no matter the circumstances of how you got married.
2006-08-14 08:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over it
2006-08-14 08:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋