We grew up together thanks to our parents and had alot of fun times. In 2004, we decided to give it a shot. Everything was good and now, hell I don't know. Don't get me wrong, we have sex just not enough.
2006-08-14 01:01:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think it would be better to phrase the last sentence 'we have sex - too much of it.' What I mean by this is that I one big thing missing here: intention.
See, sex creates a bond between you that is close enough it cannot be broken without a lot of damage - either heartbreak, or even worse, no heartbreak, which is a sign that a person's ability to love and give themselves to another has been destroyed.
So the sensible thing to do is fix things so that the relationship will last - before you go to bed. And of course a lasting relationship doesn't happen by accident. It happens when you:
- put your partner first (above everyone except God - even Mom and Dad)
- take 100% responsibility for your decisions and actions (which means, again, among other things, being independent from Mom and Dad), and
- make a permanent commitment (in front of other people so you're accountable).
If you do this, you spare yourself a lot of trouble because you have now fixed your mind on doing what needs to be done to make your relationship good and lasting.
In short, I think your relationship could really benefit by adding this element to it.
2006-08-14 01:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, this is something that can go both ways. Sometimes best friends make the best of couples because u know everything about the other person. On the other if u know too much about the other person it could mess things up. If this is an issue of sex, im sure your partner wouldnt mind increasing the number of times yall get down!
2006-08-14 08:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... it's hard to understand the problem. If you don't have sex enough... well... You aren't married? You need someone who wants to marry you. If you are using condoms, it makes sex unsatisfying for the guy. So, less sex. Good love and relationships will make a good love life, but some people don't like sex because they are very tidy and don't like messy lovin. Anyway, see a professional if you need to.
2006-08-14 08:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by bwsnyder2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships can revolve around sex. But sex is not the only thing that binds and keeps a relationship fresh. Maybe your sex drive is much stronger than his. This issue warrants a discussion between you and your friend.
2006-08-14 08:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ur buisiness 2 decide.
nobody can tell u what 2 do.
2006-08-14 08:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go to college and let it be when you get your degree then start seeing someone.
2006-08-14 08:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the problem is...?
2006-08-14 08:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋