2006-08-14 00:48:24 · 35 answers · asked by George 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I married the most beautiful woman in the world she already had two kids from her first husband. That was years ago and she's still the most beautiful woman in the world. The only thing that it meant to me that she wasn't a virgin was that she was a great lover right off the bat. If a guy is stuck on getting married to a virgin, he may deny himself the love of the person that he was meant to be with. That hardly seems worth a lifetime of true happiness, does it?
2006-08-14 01:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u said u wanted only mens views.. but tuff lol..
Look virginity has zero to do with happy marriage, it boils down to how u treat each other and love one another and RESPECT.. so her virginity has zero to do with whether it will last or not..
The plus' to it, are theres no insecurties.. of "was this guy better then me, was he bigger, was he better in bed" ect.. which.. ALOT of u guys do ask.. and god forbid if we tell u the truth lol.. So u dont have those fears.. With a virgin.. she's going to be nieve and stupid, so if u suck in bed.. she wont know it lol.. With a virgin, her body will for lack of better words, fit YOU like a glove since your the only person she will have been with.. but along with her nieveness comes curiousity.. wondering what it would be like to be with another man after awhile.. so, that could be a problem depending if she does end up feeling that way.. I think it means alot to a man to because he wants to be the first to conquer.. never feels as good to come in 2nd or 3rd..when u win a race.. ur rather come in first.. and because these days its becoming more of a rarity..for a girl to be a virgin at the time of marriage, i think its becoming a bigger issue to want what most cant have..
But i think God knew what he was doing, when he wanted everyone to save themselves for marriage.. less competing, with others of the past, and if ur a smaller man in that area, and she's been with men that were more well endowed, both could be quite disappointed in the sex life, which usually causes problems..
2006-08-14 01:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion only a virgin should expect to marry a virgin. I love my guy he told me the past is the past and he is more concerned with my present. I was very wild in the 80's after my divorce in the 90's I dated 2 men[not at the same time] and the whole decade of 2000 I took a hiatus from men that has only been broken for cyber sex. With me when I am in love nothing else and no one else really matters. I am his unless he throws me back into the sea of the looking for love.
2016-03-16 22:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on individual. Some guys want virgin wife while others dun bother about this. Marrying a virgin wife does not equate to a happy marriage. A happy marriage is that one who is marrying someone he love and whom he wish to spend the rest of his life together.
2006-08-14 00:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personal opinion no. I would think that she would always wonder if there was something else out there, better maybe... who knows. People with some experiences in life have made their decision based on the knowledge that they are happy with what they have and don't have to question whether there was someone out there better/different/whatever.
Virginity made no difference to me with my wife. We've discussed our pasts, past lovers, one night stands, blah blah.... neither of us care what the other did in the past. That's the past.
Good luck.
2006-08-14 00:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mark H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way. My first wife was a virgin. My current wife is not.
My first marriage broke up. My current marriage is good.
It's the relationship you have with each other that counts.
2006-08-14 00:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Taxedman 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes marrying a virgin or not depend on mutual relationships
2006-08-14 01:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by gprabhakarrao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer my wife to be a virgin, but in today's promiscuous and lackadaisical society, I know that the chances of finding a virgin is in the single digit percentile.
2006-08-14 00:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. As long as they are happy, virginity doesn't matters.
2006-08-14 20:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Grace is a liar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, why do u wan to marry someone 'unskilled'? c'mon, sex is an important part of marriage, why go for someone without skill? its like buying a car without test driving it. always 'test' before buying. you guys may juz turn out to be sexually incompatible, and juz break up after that.
2006-08-14 01:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋