hi,im 22 yrs old,im really depressed coz my bf cheated me for another gal,we were in a relationship from past 3 years, i was very loyal to him,but he ditched me , i want him back can u suggest me some tips so dat i can win him again,or give me some tips to take make him jealous, do u think if he see me with another guy he will get jealous,actually im not ready for any relation rite now plz help me
2006-08-13 23:52:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The jealousy thing never works.
I'm very sorry but the guy is gone and you are SOOO much better off without him.
Stop trying to think of ways to get him back. What do you want with a cheating jerk anyway?
Take some time for you. Get involved in something you enjoy and try to get past him.
2006-08-13 23:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he's no good. Did he give you any warning? If he didn't have the cahonies to come and talk to you then he's not man enough for you. If he did it on impulse that's even worse. A relationship takes communication.
3 yrs is a long time and that has to be very painful for you. I feel that constructive revenge is sweet. First of all, try to quiet your mind and remain calm. Cry and get it out. Then, turn towards yourself (and God if u have one) for strength. Build on your strengths not bring yourself down from your weaknesses. With women we tend to blame ourselves for stuff like this. Do not search for blame within yourself.
Find ways to make yourself feel good. Give yourself a spa day at home. You may not feel up to it but at this point you might need to fake it till u make it. Keep pointing yourself in a positive direction and your mind and body will eventually follow.
If u don't see him for a while and then you run into him and you look GOOD it will bother him, trust me.
A jerk like that would probably want to run into you later and say "oh poor her look how hard shes taking this.
Show him and yourself that you can rise above this and be the best person u can be. That aught to pee him off.
I know it might seem impossible right now and it's just a suggestion but it has worked for someone I know.
Good luck,lol.
2006-08-14 07:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him for few days. Behave nothing happend. Even if you happen to come across him, just react as if nothing happend. If he comes back, he really loves you. Otherwise he is not. Then, there is not purpose of crying for a person who doesn't bother you. That is what my gf did to me few years back.
However, my dear, relationship between a boy and girl is not everything in this world. Don't have to be so much depressed for this small thing in your life. Life is long and many will come inyour life. However, it will take another 3 years for you to feel the way that I feel right now.
All the best.
2006-08-14 06:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by chappani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know that he is guilty in the 1st place say romantic stuff like luv never dies and u are always here for him again and u can forgive him coz true love has no end ... dnt try 2 go with another guy u will mess all the relation try to show him that u can forgive him :)
2006-08-14 06:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by Official Helper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT!!
Ditch the bum move on and find someone who deserves you.
You feel desolate just now but that will pass. When you're with a really nice guy, you'll look back on that waste of air and be glad you've moved on.
best wishes, good luck and friendly hugs
x
2006-08-14 06:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by nev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the life of being single. Go out and have fun, play with the guys hearts. The best thing to do is to go clubbing. As soon as your ex sees you having fun and have moved on he is going to think twice about leaving you.
2006-08-14 06:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear.. he is not being loyal to you. 4get about him. if he has ditched you for another gal y r u trying to think abt him and get hurt. you deserve someone better. 4get about that cheated person. don't try to make him jelous. if you want to hurt that guy.. be as if you didn't even care that he cheated on you. have fun with your friends. (dont' start another relationship to hurt some one. bcos you are cheating yourself)
2006-08-14 06:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by dil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u ask me i think you are not worth this guy...
If u gave 3 years to this guy & this guy still cheated on you... whats the guarnatee it will not happen again.
Take a bit of time to cool down.. think it out..
Somebody else will come into ur world.. who will be worthy of your love.
2006-08-14 06:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sanjay P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been cheated on before several times best thing to do is forget that's person don't talk to them at at
2006-08-14 06:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by skater2001_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the loser dated you for three years it proofs that you are a girl worth keepin'.Dont date to make him ...come back, get a guy better than him.Lyal for three years?You desrve better
2006-08-14 07:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋