Family issues?

Question

Im not sure what to do.I am the oddball of the family and I don't get along with any of my sisters or brother.I do but I don't have that connection like the others do.My sister says I am jealous but does it sounds like I am? Or should be for that matter?

Answer 1

It just means that you are different...I was that way. It's okay to be the oddball. Don't conform to what everybody else is doing or how everybody else is acting. I'm not sure how many siblings you have, but there is almost always one sibling who is a little different or not as close with the others. Consider yourself lucky and special. Don't strive to fit in with them or to get along with them. You won't be happy. Now that doesn't mean go and pick fights with them....it just means that you can do your thing and they can do theirs....all of you have to respect each others differences. I don't know how you act or really what you say to your sister to make her say that, but you may be coming across that way to her. Ask her why she thinks you are jealous. Personally, I don't think you should be jealous. That will only cause tension and make things worse. All of you just have to accept each others differences, and not try to change each other, and not pick on each other for being different.

Answer 2

NO, you dont sound jealous. You say you're the oddball of the family, I think every family has a "black sheep". You're not the only person in the world who doesn't feel connected to their siblings, so dont feel alone. I cant say from experience, but know people in the same boat. I dont think you need therapy like the others have said. All I can say is it happens....it's like you were born into the wrong family. My mother feels that way.

Answer 3

Dear frnd Let me tell you that you have nothing wrong, your brothers and sisters too, and it normal in every family that some member some times feel he is away from others that doesn't he is but its just a feeling, what i tell you to do is to be there for your brothers and sisters help them, make them lough let them feel how funny and cool you r and yeah i guess that's all
Best of luck
♥

Answer 4

I have 3 sisters and one of them sounds allot like you shes always been the odd one out even other people outside the family ask about it the truth is I would love to have the same bond with her as I do the rest of them but she seperates herself from us and doesnt realize shes doing it she thinks its because we dont want to hang out with her could this be true for you do you think you could be alienating yourself from your siblings and not realizing it I'm not saying this is on you they also have to make an effort to spend time with you maybe they feel you dont want to be around them this is how my sister makes me feel about the rest of us allot of the time

Answer 5

Try to remain as away as u can, be self contented. They will never accept u, actually they are not honest, and to hide their weakness they are blaming u, it is an old trick. Try to keep your self happy. U r a good person, u will receive all the good things, time will change, try to be happy. avoid them and don't even think of them.

Answer 6

!st of all u have to icrease the connection , And to impliment tht connection u shud try to cooperate ur bro-sis in their daily activities , they might find it unusual and might take ur activity ironically but u have to be patient . try to make ur face smily infront of them sothat they find u are happy in their presence .think before u say something to them . Family is the most closest thing in this world , So dont loose it

Answer 7

get one of those big sisters.. They will make u feel better.. We have that organization where I live, maybe u do too

Answer 8

yeah, me too.

don't let it get you down, go make some friends, be the best person you can. Maybe they will see what a great person you are, if they don't who needs 'em?

Answer 9

See a therapist. It will help you to discover who you are.