i really like one guy, we ahve so much in common and get along famously, i have had a really really rough time lately and he seams perfect. he's really into me and im really into him... problem? He has a girlfriend... i cant seam to care about her because i dont know her, but i know that he and i would be awesome together...
2006-08-13 23:18:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm.avoid getting close to guys with gf.wait till he's free so as not to hurt anyone else's feeling.if you are destined to be together, no matter how long the wait, you will be together
2006-08-13 23:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by snoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking at this like 'should I feel bad for this person I don't know if I her boyfriend leaves her for me?' well, that's not what you should be asking yourself. You do not control his actions. If he decides he would rather be with you than her, he will decide that and you can't persuade him otherwise. But, what you need to really consider is the old saying 'a man you can steal is a man who can be stolen.' If he does it for you....someday you may be the 'girlfriend' in this situation.
Look to your own self, and your self esteem. Do not compromise yourself. Don't try to 'steal' him...let things play out as they should, and see if he comes to you....and the question you need to think is 'do I want to take the risk with him?'
Good Luck.
2006-08-14 06:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See give more time for ur relationship. Don't decide now. Try to study him as well as her better. Try getting close to the girl. GEt few clues from her. See what is her intention. Then see who is given more importance u or her. See what the guy expects from u and what he expects from her. try to diffrenciate b/w the 2 wants and then come to a conclusion
But think twice
2006-08-14 06:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Saruna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing he has a girlfriend your cheating,he's cheating as well.Relationships like this never work because if he ever left his girlfriend and got with you,he'd do the same to you some day.Get out while you can and find your own man.
2006-08-14 06:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww man gal. Think it through. Its never right stealing another guy away from his relationship with his girlfriend. I know you may think there's something between you two. But put it this way, imagine he did break off with his girlfriend and you two got together. Are you ever gonna feel secure? What if he were to meet another 'you'. Woudn't he break off with you to go with her?
2006-08-14 06:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by Abel Blessed Lim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great! I hope you too be happy together. That is until some other female gets to feelin him and not given a damn about your feelings. You're a regular sweetheart!
2006-08-14 06:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been in this situation before w/ a girl...i ****ed her so hard she fell in love with me...i tried to avoid sleeping w/her because she had a bf and i wanted to date but she kept wanted to **** so i did...after that,i couldnt trust her even though she had a good reason to do it. bottom line, if he sleeps with u, chances are if u become his he will more than likely do it to u. if he waits and leaves his gf b4 u give in, then this guy is a keeper.
2006-08-14 06:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big question here is, what does he say about his girlfriend?Are they serious?just starting?ask yourelf this:if he is willing to proceed with something with you, when he has a girlfriend, will he be faithful to you?They say all that goes around comes around..
2006-08-14 07:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Joma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your relationship more time the solution will came up and then you will see more clearly. The best for you.
2006-08-14 06:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by cecilia_kriel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is their relationship.... do they fight alot about stupid things cus if they are u might have a shot of takin him from her.... if they are going good u'll most likely be a good freind.. or he'll cheat on her with u... what makes u think he wont do the same to u...
2006-08-14 06:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by millertime06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋