Its like I will like a guy a lot, everything will be going great for about a week, but after about a week and a half of dating I start to find flaws in him, and can't help but think he isn't good enough for me. If anybody has had the same probably and learned how to fix it PLEASE let me know.
2006-08-13 23:06:01 · 17 answers · asked by jeni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no problem, only a perceived one. You are obviously not yet ready for a steady permanent relationship. Enjoy yourself. You are the kind of girl guys love to meet - a few dates, and then on to the next chick. You can do the same. When you are truly ready for a long-term relationship, your whole approach to guys will change, and the problem will go away.
Meanwhile - just take life as it comes, and enjoy yourself
2006-08-13 23:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't really fix it as it just your way of looking after yourself. Try to look at it like this. Maybe you were hurt in the past and as soon as a relationship becomes intimite you want to run. Or you are looking for someone that has strong qualities like yourself. Which is totally normal. Just keep on looking for the right guy that does not have any flaws. As I have found my flawless man, lol. Best of luck amigo
2006-08-14 06:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause none of them is your half...I was the same, I used to like a guy until I realized he likes me back. Then I was moving on, hunting for others. And when I met the one I fell in love with, he got me wondering for 6 months whether he likes me as much as I do or not. I was somehow "rewarded"...haha.
2006-08-15 04:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
personally I find you loose the interest once you have them coz the chase is over!!!! Thats the most fun in the lead up to a relationship - like does he /doesnt he like me and then when you KNOW they do - you might just get a bit scared to commit, or bored with commitment and want to start a whole new chase up again!
2006-08-14 06:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL, HAVE YOU REPORTED "KING OF HYRULE" YET FOR ABUSE?
NOW LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR PROBLEM. "Why do I stop liking guys when they start showing an interest?" YOU FEEL THAT WAY BECAUSE MAYBE YOU GOT USED TO BEING IGNORED BY YOUR CRUSH, AND WHEN ONE GIVES YOU AN ATTENTION, YOU'RE NOT USED TO IT SO IT GETS YOU OFF. YOU HAVE THIS IDEA THAT THE GUYS YOU LIKE ARE GODS WHO ARE FLAWLESS BECAUSE THEY WOULDN'T SETTLE FOR A GIRL LIKE YOU, AND SO WHEN THEY DATE YOU AND YOU START SEEING THEIR FLAWS, IT KILLS YOUR DESIRE.
2006-08-14 06:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by gameplan_xtreme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have yourself up on that pedastal don't you...Well you need to come back to ground and realize that everyone has flaws...yes even you...You are to cught up in your self that you don't even see what is in front of you...Your expectations are too high...You need to lower them
2006-08-14 06:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because u have won their affection now there is no need 4 them, guys do it 2 woman all the time
2006-08-14 06:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by lots of luv carebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must be a economics student - heard of Adams law of diminishing---
2006-08-14 06:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by mysterious guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you just like the chase. That's ok, too. Eventually you will find the right one.
2006-08-14 06:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes it takes us a couple of times to see the things we dont like in someone.some can be obvious some can be very minor and are harder to detect.
2006-08-14 06:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋