im married into a fam of 4brothers and 1 sister (eldest).so i hav 2 sisiter in laws from hubby side.For years there has been backbiting going on and sum severe fights.we have made up since and all parties involved ask'd forgivness . we've had lunch twice since then and my sister(blood) and i hav notice sum strange habits of the other two. they hav been exchanging eye signals and the one is totaly avoiding us apart from at fam funcions.she used to visit and sms daily.
2006-08-13 22:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just be polite when you see them but dont try and be friends....
2006-08-13 23:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can identify with you on this I only have one sister-in-law and I would count it as a blessing if she didn't want much to do with me outside family functions. But it seems to bother you why. Do you really care what they think. It seems the other family members have seen this too. How do they feel about it? The only thing I really can tell you is don't have anything to do with them unless it is a family function.
2006-08-14 01:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Becky H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stoop to their level. Move on. They may be part of yor extended family but they don't need to be in your day to day life if they act like that. Tell you honey what's up and forget them. If they wwant to cause trouble let them it's not you. You weren't friends before you got married and they obviously aren't going to try to be your friends now so why go thru the motions? Make sure you tell your honey tho so he knows what's up and can stand by you if they decide to be childish.
2006-08-13 23:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need not to bother about these small fly tickling irritants , do ignore all these and concentrate to keep your one man happy , do not complaint and avoid observing and staring them . You will learn how to keep your self happy .
2006-08-13 23:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these girls probably dislike you intensely.its obvious that they do not trust you and believe that you have some kind of ulterior motive in regards to them.i would keep a close eye on them.
2006-08-13 23:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by my_mas0n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess you should just avoid n ignore them
the more u get into this the more u'll get upset n hassled,just confide in yoUr husband n keep this people away from u n ur house!!
2006-08-13 23:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember there is only one difference between in-laws and outlaws
Outlaws are wanted
2006-08-14 00:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by stephen c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with kookie,i`ve learned thru my old age to take care of your own family ,you`re NOT going to change them. if anything the harder you try,the more they will try to make trouble.try to maintain a good relationship with sis-
2006-08-13 23:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP THEM AT THE BACK BURNER.
2006-08-13 23:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by lace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them... they obviously have issues...
don't have dealings with them unless you HAVE to... have you told your husband???
2006-08-13 22:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋