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Im a fairly ordinary happy smiley guy of 38,i try my best to look good,i am outgoing,funny,generous,romantic,spontaneous...but it seems no matter what i do i always end up back where i began..."alone"...so over to you men or women please what is your advice on finding and keeping a relationship??..or if anyone wants to be a "pen" friend then get in touch.

2006-08-13 22:50:37 · 22 answers · asked by bty369983 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

22 answers

YOU DONT LOOK FOR LOVE HUNNY, LOVE LOOKS FOR YOU! AND ITS TRUE ENJOY YOURSELF WHEN YOU GO OUT AND THE REAL YOU SHINES FOR ALL TO SEE.

2006-08-14 00:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by mummy 3 · 0 0

Finally! Someone that feels the same way as me!!! I know exactly what you are saying, I always end up on my own. My problem is I give too much too soon in a relationship and always end up scaring the pants off of the chap I am with. Its just because I am a loving person and don't know how to be any different. I am not a pyscho or anything, just very tactile and friendly. So, after tonight, if things don't worj out with my bf, I guess I will be on my own again...be good to have a penfriend x

2006-08-13 23:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by jmhale2005 2 · 0 0

You sound exactly like me 5 years ago. I got to the point where I thought all women were mad and just weren't worth the effort. Then out of the blue I went on a blind date arranged by an acquaintance and now 5 years later I am happily married with 2 small children. You just have to keep looking and you will find the right woman eventually.

2006-08-13 22:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by johnny28 2 · 0 0

If you seriously are what you just said...we have a right to wonder...try asking yourself or if there's a way to find out from the girls what is it that turned them off...coz i've seen it happen quite a number of times when guys think they're perfect but un reality they do things that make the woman feel neglected, unappreciated, and worst of all unloved...it's all about giving the expected and maybe even more without expecting so much in return.

2006-08-13 23:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

With out knowing you it is difficult to say, but at a guess i would say that you are trying to hard. Also i know that if you are one of the typical "lads" women do not like men who are drunk. I know my problem is i have a very strong personality, which people either like or hate....but there is very few that will love it....lol The only advise i can say is try registering on this web site http://www.plentyoffish.com it will at least get you chatting. You will find it more beneficial to put a pic on site as well. Also its completely free.

Good Luck

2006-08-14 03:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by biker550_uk 3 · 0 0

I feel for you, youve tried to be what you think women want, and cant find one....

Well, some of these ideas you will probably think are terrible, but remember we r all individuals.

1. Find a married woman in a bad relationship, she will actually be wanting your type of guy
2. find a divorced woman, whos over her ' i want to marry a pretty bast***' stage, and wants a you
3. find a woman with kids, they put alot of guys off.
4. Join a dating agency, that does video interviews, mannerisms are important, lots of women will go, ooh he sounds like a sweetie.. but the date will last 5 minutes.

5. be polite, but dont be a girl. Dont tuck her chair in when ure at pizza hut.. sure hold the door, but reserve top hat and tails manners for when your in them.

6. if you have any wiered sexual stuff, join a more interesting website, find a chick whos into that

7. ask your mother/sister if they have any friends, who u might like

8. Ask your m8's wives to set you up.

9. relationships are based on trust, sort out any issues you have

10 dont confuse trust and truth, you can lie, dont get caught

2006-08-13 23:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by yeah well 5 · 0 0

alot of successful relationships have started online. try something legit like eharmony.com. Let them know all those things yous aid about but stay real too. When you meet a woman online, all guards are down and the both of you are free to open yourself up and have the other person accept you. You can get to know the person, how you interract with them and maybe call them and see how you click voice to voice. Then after getting that out of the way, meet them. It's like a 3rd date except you already know each other. good luck!

2006-08-13 22:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by andthatshypocricy 3 · 0 0

well, if people keep leaving you, maybe you just havent found the right one yet, you know there are plenty of nice guys out there who arent paid enough attention to. plainly, i think america is too shallow. since this is the case, you might want to tone up a little. if you are already, maybe try a new hairstyle, or some new clothes. or, if you are happy with the way you look, just be yourself. eventually, someone will come around that YOU even may want to keep. in order to attain someones intrest, you need to keep them entertained. try different things, and surprise them! if they leave a nice guy like you,......that is thier loss, and eventually, they will realize that.

2006-08-13 23:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

theres an old saying treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen. women love a bastard. i brought home 2 women last night and shagged them in front of the missus, i could see she was upset cuz she was crying when i whipped the big lad out and told her to clean me. of course what i have just said is lies, lets see your single and you have a problem?. your woman is round the corner just waiting for you to bump into each other dont go looking you will find each other. say you have a bag of nuts, to get to the sweetest nut you have to go through all the bad ones first, d'ya see what im saying here? .

ps: the nicest people always get crapped on, toughen up

2006-08-13 23:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

For anyone who has a problem and they can't figure out why,I suggest that you read this book called Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer. Please at least check it out before saying no about reading it. This book is very good and it's helping me. Good luck and God Bless. P.s. Don't try to force a relationship with someone, it will come when you least expect it.

2006-08-13 22:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0 0

There has to be something wrong with you but your not admitting it to yourself.You need to check yourself,figure out what you really want in a mate,then go look for it.Good guys have bad luck too,but look for the warning signs for you and your mate.Try not to do the same old thing in your relationships.True love will come,good luck.

2006-08-13 23:00:33 · answer #11 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0 0

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